my boyfreind alex has a myspace.and i just recently got one too....except this makes him mad.he is always worried im talking to other guys on it.
i just want him to chill out weve been together for almost a year..
2006-07-18 17:35:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY! f u and ur myspace!
2006-07-18 17:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Shelbzz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Myspace is mainly for Two Things and thats for finding a lover or for keeping in touch with friends =P
You need to put in your about me section " I have a boyfriend and put his pic on there " and put " In a realationship " on the bottom part not "single" to make him not so jelious I guess lol (Be sure and look at what his says to) make sure he isn't trying to look all single like to get girls to talk to him.
and you are both together..... so none of you are looking for a lover why not just cansel both of your current myspaces.... and take a pic with eachother and say ___ & ___'s Myspace then you both keep the password, Check it when you are together... and let your friends know to Add you or just add them.... I think that should solve the whole trust problem.
2006-07-18 17:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jayrowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is not healthy behavior.
Before I rip in to Alex who I am sure is a nice guy.
Did you give him reason to be upset that you are on my space?
Were you talking with other guys?
If you are being faithful then here is my advice.
You need to get a man that trusts you. A true boyfriend would not even worry about you being on my space because he would be secure in your relationship.
2006-07-18 17:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can post on your profile that you are happily in a relationship and just looking for friends. I hate myspace simply because some people think its only a platform for picking people up, but I've never picked anyone up on the Internet and I would never want to either.
2006-07-18 17:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by cancerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a deal with him.. he can have full access to what ever you do on myspace if he agrees to the same. Either he is feeling guilty about his own actions on there or maybe you are just getting a simple jealous reaction.. wich ever it is, don't allow him to control the situation to his advantage.. what is good for the goose is good for the gander..
2006-07-18 17:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who recently got off myspace cause it made her significant other jealous.This is truly lame.Your boyfriend has no right to be jealous its just myspace!!!!!Also I wonder if he shows jealously about other things?If so look out you could be headed down a road you don't want to be on.
2006-07-18 17:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, "Then why shouldn't I also be mad for you having a myspace?, Should I be worried that you're talking to other girls?" Obviously, he's probably going to say that you shouldn't be worried which you would then say, "Then why don't you trust me the way that I trust you?". You would be totally logical to ask him this, it doesn't make any sense for him to be accusing you for something he may also possibly be able to do. Good luck.
2006-07-18 17:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he trusts you there is no need to be worried and insecure. Just say to him. You have a myspace how do i know your not talking to girls? no guys should stop you from what you wanna do. so keep the site and talk on it.
2006-07-18 17:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your boyfriend is jealous, controling and manipulative. Dump his a*s! and find a boy that's secure enough with himself and wont accuse you of things.
It's double standard bull sh*t, it's ok for HIM to have a myspace page but not you!? I bet he's the one flirting behind your back.
Besides there is NOTHING wrong with TALKING to other boys!
2006-07-18 17:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by 2 cents 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the main key in starting in any relationship..
tell him that why would he say that, since you guys are together for almost a year, he should trust you...
tell him that you love him and that will never change unless he becomes a total jerk.. (dont include the jurk thing when you tell him this)
2006-07-18 17:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by mitchiegirl14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...this makes me wonder if he's talking to girls on his myspace. The guilty dog always barks first. Tell him you'll give up yours if he gives up his. That's only fair. If he won't...then he has a trust issue and you should watch your back.
2006-07-18 17:38:20 · answer #11 · answered by Lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋