It's definitely wrong to choose a boyfriend over a child. I have dated some women who paid more attention to me than their own child and I had to point it out to them. Now if you have just been bad and the boyfriend and her are unified in addressing your bad behavior, than there is nothing wrong with that. But if she is simply just siding him and ignoring you, she is obviously insecure and is unknowingly being self centered. If this is the case, she wants to feel good about herself and life and is unfortunately enjoying herself and prioritizing what's going on with her rather than taking care of her responsibilities and investing in her own child and the future generation. That's too bad. Try and understand that your mother does love you she is just trying to feel good about herself and be accepted by this guy because she is likely extremely insecure. Just know that you are important and worthwhile and you can be anything and do anything in life you want to do!! :)
2006-07-18 17:57:36
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answered by GP 2
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Agreed. As soon as I understand your question I'd be happy to help.
BUT, I can assume that your question is 'What if someone's mother choose her boyfriend over her daughter?'
Naturely and personally, that's wrong. Blood is thicker than water, dude. Why would she choose a total stranger than her own flesh and blood?
Well, if that someone couldn't change her mom's mindset by talking, let action speak louder than words. The more he/she love her mother (hopefuly) the more his/her mother returns the love
2006-07-19 00:40:21
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answered by laidbacktionist 2
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She / you needs to talk to her daug. about her boyfriend and then go from there. but choosing a b/f should take some time and some concerns..u kno what i mean... do some deep thinkin on this.. i hope i understood your question...
2006-07-19 01:16:22
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answered by wicked 2
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first ,the buddy should try to talk her mom & should show love towards her mom.then only she can realise wrong type of thing.as ur question this is wrong
2006-07-19 00:32:54
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answered by sanju b 2
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As soon as I understand your question I'll be happy to help....
2006-07-19 00:29:19
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answered by Ann Chovie 3
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I think you might need to rephrase that question.
2006-07-19 00:31:42
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answered by jeff h 1
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hunny... what is your question? there is no question... go to add details and maybe someone can understand you and help you!
2006-07-19 00:36:21
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answered by Anonymous
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???um...i think i kinda get it so if i do then yes, that is sooo totally wrong.
2006-07-19 01:14:57
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answered by monkeygirrl4444 1
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help us understand the question then we'll help you
2006-07-19 00:34:21
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answered by Mr. Mackey 2
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please don't go choosing your daughter's boyfriends. she will rebel and get pregnant. let her make her own choices.
2006-07-19 00:40:16
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answered by DeAd DiScO 4
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