Hello, I'm 20 and I am just getting a divorce from my husband (his sisters didnt like me, and he loved them more than he did me).Anyways,we separated for a year then got a divorce.Since then I havent had any relationship or anything. I just felt so low, no self confidence at all, and I still feel that way to be honest.I just relocated to another town like 2 months ago, and have a new job, which is pretty hard, but that I love with all my heart.And for the first time in a long time,I feel really happy.I have this huge,I mean major crush on my supervisor (23 years old; compared to my 35 years old now ex husband).I'm working and I'm staring at him like an idiot,and sometimes he looks at me and smiles.I dont know what to do, I think about him all the time, and I seem to see him everywhere, he gives me butterflies in my tummy, but i dare not ask him anything. I know he cant notice me, and I dont want to even humiliate myself asking him anything. But I still want to do somthing. HELP!!!
2006-07-18 17:18:42 · 3 answers · asked by diamant152001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love this job with all your heart, you will forget about this crush on your supervisor.
You have relocated to a new place and have a great new job. You also have a great new supervisor. He's closer to you age, which means you probably have a lot more in common than your ex husband. You also see him on a daily basis, and close proximity breeds familiarity (meaning the more you see him, the more you like him).
Chances are you don't have a crush; you are simply responding to the first man who has treated you like a real person in a long time. Pay close attention to your job. You are doing positive things for yourself and should continue. You also should give yourself a break from a romantic relationship for a while and figure out who you are. It sounds like you got married very young and weren't treated well.
Find out what you want like to do and pursue interested before pursuing another relationship, especially with your boss. Should anything actually happen, there's a 99% chance that you are the one who would lose you job. Good luck with your new life.
2006-07-18 17:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you said it's a crush, that shows you din really know him well. Be friends with him and get to know him better. Try to start a conversation with him by asking about work stuffs. All the best yah!
2006-07-18 17:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEWARE!
It is never a good idea for a supervisor to get close personally to a person they are responsible for & vice versa.
Find someone else!
2006-07-18 17:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by carl l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋