It is two year back story. I Love a girl that time ......and I tell her about my feeling. But she simply reject me.....
It hurts me a lot. ...but till date I can't forget her... I am trying but i can't...forget...
I feel some kind of pain when ever i think about her...
Please advice me how to forget her........
2006-07-18 17:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not contact her - no matter how tempted you are - don't call, visit, talk to her, even on her birthday. Stop seeing her completely - change the job or the best temporary move away. Like a drug addict, you just have to go through a tough detox period and you will be fine.
Don't kid yourself that you can be friends. Maybe some day, when the emotion will pass. I speak from personal experience, it took me a year until I realised that we could never get over each other if we keep feeding this love.
Starve it to death.
2006-07-19 10:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Feniks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, it can take a while to get over, but two years is time to focus on moving on.
Realize that this happens to most people. Tell yourself that it just wasn't meant to be, that the right person is out there waiting. Focus on your good qualities and remind yourself that you are worthy of loving and that there are many girls out there who are looking for a guy who has what you do. In short, stop dwelling on the fact that she didn't love you, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and start looking ahead to the future.
Also realize that you're idealizing her. Look for her flaws (number one being that she wasn't into you). She probably wasn't worthy of your feelings. Someone else out there is, but you won't know who that is until you find her and she returns your feelings.
Realize that you won't forget her, but that it was just something that you had to go through to know what love feels like so that you can recognize it the next time.
2006-07-18 17:19:21 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not as there's a decision. there is the divorce,and the separation, that sounds so very last. that is what it skill, you is only no longer sharing conversations or e mailing, the courting has come to an end. Is there some style of kid contract, and or visitation rights? it is the position you've communications left, about the youngster. it is typically a tug and pull except you're both in touch for the best of your newborn. Distancing your self emotionally will come, as you settle for and study a thanks to manage the rejection. it is the discomfort you ought to experience, he's divorcing you and the youngster. This being a attending to understand journey many bypass trough, you aren't to any extent further allone 50% of the marriages finally end up in divorce. you're fortunate that you've your household interior attain, percentage your sorrow with them, and your faith in God.
2016-10-14 22:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really forget her cuz you have all the memories of what you two did together (dates, romantic dinners etc.) but you jus need to keep going out and try your hardest to forget about her and find someone else to focus your antention on.
2006-07-18 17:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to forget her is to get a new girlfriend or involve yourself in some kind of activity that would make you busy.
2006-07-18 17:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by anom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other things and people to help occupy your mind and your time. It will eventually get easier. If she rejected you it is a no win situation. You will find someone who cares as much about you as you do them. Sometimes these things just take time. Be patient and you will find it is worth the wait.
2006-07-18 17:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by miso1cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I was in the same situation that you are in now. I got over him by seeing someone else. I mean it is hard at first but you will be able to do it in the mean time. By seeing someone else it got my mind off of him to where now we can hang out and there isnt anything there anymore. It will all work out in time you watch and see.
2006-07-18 17:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out with some one else. Or keep your self busy with any extra curricular activity.
2006-07-18 17:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't forget. love should never be forgotten. yes it will be hard but forgetting just makes it harder. let time ease your pain.
2006-07-18 17:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cough it back and let it make you stronger :-)
You are only as weak as you let yourself to be!
If she were worthy of you, she would be with you!
Stop dwelling and find the one who really is :-)
2006-07-18 17:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋