Me and this guy named Greg got into a fight this past Friday over rumors he had heard. I went to the theater where he works to go and see a movie and this girl that likes him, Nikki, kept giving me dirty looks and called me a tramp or whatever whenever I would walk by her. Well, I went up to Greg that night and told him what Nikki was doing and he started yelling at me in front of everyone telling me to quit my ****. So I just looked at him and said f... you. Well, I am in love with Greg, and he loves me back, but I dont know what to do, should I try to make everything better or just leave it as it is and us go our seperate ways? I dont know, I love him with all my heart and the more I think about all these events happening the more it hurts and the more I get pissed off. Should I try and talk to him about it or what??
2006-07-18 17:02:52 · 29 answers · asked by BonitaNala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright... i had said this before in another Q & A, but i think it fits here as well, with a few changes... first off, seeing as he likes to yell, superglue his *testies* to an open toilet seat, then... slam the lid... hard!! then ya look down upon him cradling his jewels crying like a baby and say something like " well, hunny, you liked to yell soooo much, i'd thought i'd be a sweetheart, do you a favor, and help you... being supportive of your habits and all... ya know? like a good girlfriend should do. *muah!*"
2006-07-18 17:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by fordman14437a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say by his response that maybe Nikki isn't the only one that is doing the "liking" in the situation. Or maybe he just got mad that you tried to address the situation while he was at work. But from what you say, there's a history of this kind of thing going on. My question for you is: Did you really deserve for him to kick you while you were down because of what this girl had already done to you? Someone who truely loved you would have been more concerned with your feelings at that moment than their own. If you think it's worth saving, do what you think you need to do. BUT, you shouldn't be the only one working at the relationship. He has to work at it, too! If he can't put forth the effort, he's not worth yours!
2006-07-19 00:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ken'sBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He yelled at you for a reason I feel that he was guilty of something besides if your man loves you then he also respects you and yelling in front of people is not love and respect. I don't think that i would let him go but don't talk to him for a few days. Make him think about the way he treated you or trust me he will think that he can treat you that way all the time
2006-07-19 00:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings you have for him are not what he feels for you or He would not have ridiculed you in public. The way he lashed out on yo showed there are other things on his mind. Time to move on and let him and Nikki do what they want. AT least get away from him until He apologizes and gives you the respect you deserve. He should have defended you not attacked you.
2006-07-19 00:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is like deja vu. i had a bf named greg and he believed what a girl said. we got into a serious fight. i had to get 15 stitches in my head because of it. he found out later that it was not true. so what im saying is if this guy listens to other people over you then he has no trust or respect for you. so **** him and move on. good luck.
2006-07-19 00:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if it makes you feel better, talk to him ALONE (not in front of a group of people or at his job).........I really don't think you went to go see the movie at the theater, either.......You went to see what he was doing, right??????? Sometimes you have to give someone a bit of space to see where you stand, and this is what I would do with him.....If a boyfriend of yours came to your job and started some personal stuff, wouldn't you be angry???? Give the guy a little time........Take care, dear...........
2006-07-19 00:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you walked on his territory.
How well do you actually know this guy?
Are you truly sure he loves you?
Why would he embarass you in public like that?
Think about it sweetie :-)
You failed to mention the rumors...
Are you sure he just wasn't flirting with this Nikki, who obviously has no respect for a relationship?
Maybe that is why he got so defensive...
I wish you luck!
2006-07-19 00:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly Love him you should forgive him and not say anything about it forgive and forget.
Tho he should not be talking to you that way if he truly loves you. But don't say anything about it and this might be hard for you but don't think about it anymore only think about the positive things in your relationship with him be nice to him like you should if you are in love.And if you see this Nikki again and she says anything to you, just smile at her and don't say anything mean Don't lower your self to her level, you can rise above this. if you really want to. All the best wishes for you and your happiness
2006-07-19 00:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop his sorry @ss! From what I've read just now, you write too sexy to be putting up with childish people like that! It's obvious that you're the more mature one; let kids be kids. You, on the other hand, have your whole life ahead of you!(without the drama) Just to remind you; 'Love' doesn't 'Call you out' in public! -progress.
2006-07-19 00:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how hurt you are, tell him that you expected him to take up for you and that you are his girlfriend. If you get a negative response, let him know that you thought he felt the same way about you.If all else fails,give him time and space to re-evaluate the relationship.
2006-07-19 00:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋