He goes out every weekend and people tell me that he makes me look like a fool i wonder if he really loves me or if I am just what he is use to.
2006-07-18 16:56:11 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may say love but his actions say no love, no respect, no commitment, no future. Words and actions must be the same! Leave him to his games and go get yourself a good life. Figure out what has made you believe his lies and to take his emotional abuse for 9 years. Your self-esteem is low, by the way you write,and you need to strenthen youself, know yourself, figure out what you really want in life and set your goal to do it.Then start working toward that goal. You will not find a man that is good enough while you are so down and blue.Figure out what you really want in a spouse and then only date men that are within your expectations.Respect gets respect. You deserve better and now can expect and recieve better treatment when you leave him and his selfish ways.
2006-07-18 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if he goes out everyweekend without you he is definitely making a fool out of you.
He might be saying that you are not worth to be taken on weekends. and has cheats on you when he finds some out there.
You might be his weekday pleasure.
It is high time that you leave him before he does that. Or he will continue to make use of you until you give him what he wants.
There is no wondering as if he had loved you he will not make you look like a fool in front of others.
2006-07-18 17:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you caught him cheating or are you going by what others are saying?
If you know for a fact that he's cheating, then that's a different story. If that's the case, it's not important if he loves you what's important is that you love yourself. Several woman contract Hiv and other std's because of this. If he is cheating he's putting your life in harm's way. That's what you should be worried about.
2006-07-18 17:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tuffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your boy friend isn't loving or respecting you. after 9 years you should be tired.Love doesn't hurt, don't let him treat you badly any longer, call a halt to it. Stand up and tell him it's over, he's not a man if he can't treat you like the queen you are. You are wonderful, let someone else discover your beauty.There are great guy's waiting to meet you as soon as you let this dead weight go. I know it will be painful. Cry, throw thing's and let him go.. You will be surprised how much better you feel.....
2006-07-18 17:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girl if he is cheating on u then no he doesnt love u. then again the ppl could just be lying to u. ppl r screwed up so i wouldnt really trust what some ppl say. anyway just ask him. if he loves u then he will tell u if its true or not even if it hurts u,at least hes being honest with u right? thats right. anyways just talk to him u wont know whats really going on until u talk to him and find out.
2006-07-18 17:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he is making you look like a fool. There is an old saying "Happens once shame on him, happens twice shame on you". If you stay with him and let him, hell yes he is going to cheat. He doesn't love you, nor does he respect or even like you.
2006-07-18 17:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** leave that loser you know there a many fish in the sea and maybe you think to your self if he loves you cheating on you like that,honey live your life free not in a cage full of things that don't even care a bit of you. so you should let him go and you fly away for ever until your prince shows up.
2006-07-18 17:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by bananna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure looks like you are like the rest of the furniture in His apartment. Oh Yes you can do more than the couch but in His eyes the biggest thing You and the couch share is His body when he feels like it. Wise up and get away from the loser.
2006-07-18 17:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is a cheater. He is going to keep on cheating until someone he truly loves leaves him. But if a man says he loves someone and wants to sleep with another woman. That man is still missing real love in that department. I'm not saying that you don't please him. I'm saying within his soul.
2006-07-18 17:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you need serious psychiatric help. As a matter of fact, this question is in the wrong category. Submit this same question to any of the following categories: Mental Health, Women's Health, Diseases, etc., etc..
2006-07-18 17:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋