ok i really need some help?

Question

there's this guy who i went out with and then i broke up with him and then he asked me back out during chorus and i said no, but i still liked him. then at the end of the year my friend asked him out for me without me even knowing and so we went out with him and then one of my friends came over and said "would you get mad at me if i asked him out" and sence she always mad fun of me for liking him i thought she was joking so i said no but guess what she wasnt! what do i do

Answer 1

If you really like this guy, tell him.Don't waste you life regretting that you said something.Just do it. I know your friend may or may not truly like him as much as you, so be honest with him, tell him the whole story.

Answer 2

You should mention to your friend that you really thought she was joking about her asking your guy out and that you really do still like this guy, but it's also not her fault that you said no to him when you had the opportunity to be back with him. This may sound like your friend is mean, but just because you tell her you still have feelings for this guy, doesn't mean she'll stop going for him if she has the same feelings. I suggest you get the guy that you want before she does! Good luck.

Answer 3

I would have to say she is not much a friend. Other friends, guys are off limits no matter what the conditions. Initially she was making fun of you and the teasing all came from her secret desire to be dating the guy while he had his eyes on you.

Watch this one in the future. All of us girls have had that one scummy friend that no matter what, tried to always pick up our men and even our left overs.

Quit sharing ladies and move on !

Answer 4

don't listen to that jerk up top but if it were me i would stop being friends with her. Every girl No's you never talk to or go out with someone your friend like or has talked to. If she was your real friend the thought of asking you that would have never came across her mind that to me is not a very good friend to do that.Me and my friends have been friends for 20yrs. and we have never once dated or talked to the same guy that's like the number one code of conduct for being a friend. You just don't do it

Answer 5

wait? so she asked your ex out? if that's the case, oh man, that isn't cool... let the chick go and let him go. Because if you keep either of them, it will only bring drama. If she asked him out for you than, i mean she was just doing you some good, even though it would've been nice you were involved... If you like him, try and go for it, but watch out.... if it gets too complicated just let it go...and say NEXT

Answer 6

what you need to do:
1.ask yourself if you still like this guy
2. Tell your fend how you really feel
3. Tell the guy how you feel
you probably already knew that this is what needs to be done, but were understandably afraid to do it.
I recommend doing it because you could regret it latter if you don't.

Answer 7

u shud prob let it happen.....
if he realises that u r a much better person than her,he'll try to get u back with renewed vigour.
till that happens,u still win cos ur still free to do as u want

Answer 8

its your own fault really....because you still liked him but you said no.

she saw that "hey he's free and i really did like him thats why i made fun of the 2 of you....i'm gonna strike"


but seeing that she's a friend and she's going after an ex thats a big no no......

friends don't date friend's ex's

and my friend goes by this rule "i don't date anyone who another friend likes"

because alot of the guys liked her but she wouldn't date them if we liked them.

Answer 9

This poor guy...you are all playing with him like he is a toy and using him like a tool. He has feelings too.

Answer 10

Tell her you thought she was kidding, and you don't want her to go out with him.