This guy I really like, the other night I thought we had something special going on.. and I could feel the butterflies cause he was taking me home in his truck. But now that my mom bought me a prom dress just in case he asks me and IM not in public school. When I showed his older older sister she didn't say much and now she is telling me that he didn't come to our pot lucks that we have. and he didn't come this time cause he went to a movie with mary this girl. My other friend said that he saw him putting his arm around a girl at the park for 4th of july. I don't know what to do. I thought we have something. now he gets a day off of work and desides to spend it with this mary girl. Im confused? Help// IM sad...
2006-07-18 16:35:49 · 31 answers · asked by sharalyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry you are sad but it sounds like he was just trying to do you a favor and be nice by giving you a ride home and having a chat with you... you should look for another guy to ask you out. Try not to let this ruin your prom :( Go by yourself if you have to , its not lame, It just gives you more freedom !!!!
2006-07-18 16:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason you're confused, is because you're the only one who's attempting to make something out of nothing. I don't know how long you and this guy have been going out but, you need to stop with the, "This Mary girl." thing and start focusing on your life! It's obvious you haven't asked him if he was seeing someone. So, I take it that, you just assumed that he wasn't and formed some idea in your head that you two had something special. Stop it! You're no fool! So, stop acting all innocent and stuff! You know there's few people here on Answers that will show pity; I'm just glad I'm not one of them. You know what to do!
2006-07-18 16:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Ur way confused. He gave you nothing but a ride home. I can't believe you got a prom dress just based on butterflies.
2006-07-18 16:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young, you will like many different boys...and they will like many different girls...and you will like them for different reasons. He might like you for a different reason than he likes this other girl...and it is okay. The best thing you can do is just be yourself...because then if they still like you...it is real. When you are young, it is hard to know what is real...so he probably likes you and I wouldn't worry too much...and save that dress, because if you don't get to use it this time, you will get to use it some other time, kay?
2006-07-18 16:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the junk!
Just kidding. Go talk to him and tell him he better dump Mary and take you to the prom. If he refuses, then you know what to do.
2006-07-18 16:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by eddygordo19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a two =timer and he is not ready to commit to just you.. i hope you can find a excellent date for the prom to show him up...i think this is lousy but guys do this all the time.. most are after one thing...but some are genuinely caring and just want to date and have friends,,,so good luck and hope you get a date to the prom and show him you do not need him.. you have to have to mcuh pride to be involved with a two-timer
2006-07-18 16:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a man, my advice is, get over it, he's a man.
you are much better than he is and always will be.
Find a better prom date, and do it fast.
there is likely someone that has been poking, tripping, etc on you that likely did it because he likes you.
That is the best man, be it a nerd, dweeb, hunk, or otherwise.
Also, ask your first choice, maybe he's been waiting for you too.
2006-07-18 16:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by SuperTech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! forget him find someone else. he doesn't seem to keep his relationships very long. if he like you bad he will come to you. if he does tell him anything that your heart feels like. I have a question for you :did these things happen before you started liking him? if you answer is yes it's probly his old girl friend.
2006-07-18 16:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this is the type of boy that goes out with as many girls as he can just to see what he can get. There are many boys out there that will treat you better. Please don't get involved with this boy, because he will hurt you as he already has. I am so sorry for your pain, but take relationships really slow so you won't get hurt.
2006-07-18 16:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by kb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a player..dump him asap!!!! No time for games
in this girl's world.....and no time to be confused when the answer
is clearly right in front of you... Sorry he hurt you...don't let him have the chance to do it again
2006-07-18 16:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by ljean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋