Is their anybody that is waiting until their wedding night to do you know what?
Also, whether you are or aren't how do you feel about this...what are the pros and cons?
2006-07-18 16:31:48 · 18 answers · asked by tilaboo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not getting married so I would be waiting forever, but I am not!
2006-07-18 16:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the pros are that you get to know every other facet of your future spouse. Your mind and heart doesn't get confused or preoccupied thinking of the physical pleasure. Sex is so much more than that. It brings a couple so close together. If you love everything else about that person, sex is learnable. Plus that is the way God intended. For sex to be saved for the marriage "bed". Other pros are no risk of an unwanted pregnancy, no risk of std's. Other pros are a clean consciounce. I believe there are a few cons though. Society frowns on it. It will set you apart from the norm. It will be an amazing present to open on your honey moon.. Wait if at all possible... wait.
2006-07-18 23:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am waiting for marriage cuz if the guy wants me bad enough he will marry me. In a way its kinda like makeing him work for it. I don't really know the pro's and con's to it but Except one pro you know he will respect you which is good and a con not all guys like that you want to wait till marriage so they will give up but then you jus move on.
2006-07-18 23:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cons are that almost 50% of people end up getting divorced anyway. So if you're saving it for marriage, there's a 50% chance that it will be in vain so you might as well do it while your young and can still get some.
2006-07-18 23:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by The Chucksta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait until my wedding night, but I did wait until I found the guy I'm going to marry. We get married in 2 weeks, but I decided that the committment is there, and so is the trust, so I'd loosen the leads.
Pros:
No regret over when you lost your virginity and to who.
No worries of STD's. (It's quite easy to have the other person tested prior).
True committment instead of purely sex.
Cons:
"Less experience/knowledge".
Less "playing the field".
2006-07-18 23:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes im waiting!! Its the right thing to do. Thats part of why people get married. Plus who in the right mind would go to a party and sleep with someone theyve only known for a couple of days (happens on tv all the time). especially with stds and hiv running rapid!
2006-07-18 23:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by The Question Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I'm definitely waiting till my wedding night.
Pros:
I'm saving myself for my (hopefully) soulmate for life
We get to experience a truly wonderful thing together
My entire sexlife has been waiting for this day
Overall my risks for an STD would be low assuming my husband is a virgin as well
Cons:
PATIENCE
2006-07-18 23:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm waiting for marriage i want to be able to give my husband something that i can never give to someone else but there are so many cons to it. like if you marry this man or woman and then they want a divorce because that is all they wanted and plus what if they are bad in bed but then that won't matter because you will love your spouse that it won't matter how they are in bed but then you don't know what will happen till it happens so you hope for the bast and remember don't marry till you know that you love the other person because sex is not what should be important in marriage but love should and that's all that matters.
2006-07-18 23:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the person if she/he wants to do it before or on the wedding night. different people have different perspectives. as for me i want to wait until the wedding night before i do it. i would be really awesome to share it for the first time with the person you will spend the rest of your life with. well, that my opinion.
2006-07-18 23:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by starshie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm waiting til my wedding night until i am no longer a virgin.
it will mean alot more for me to give it to the man that i truely love and i know he was willing to wait for it too.
my fiance knows where i stand on this issue and he isn't pressuring me for anything.
2006-07-18 23:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a very down to earth person, and i live life by what comes my way. i'm in the middle when it comes to waiting, and not waitng. if i end up meeting the right guy then i just let what the chemistry is become what is naturall to me, and yet another part of me believe it's good to wait. it's about living life for me, and doing thngs that please me. well i'm a christian so that plays alot
in my faith.
2006-07-18 23:57:41 · answer #11 · answered by rosepoet4567 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋