Someone help me in Jesus name Amen!?

Question

There was this guy i use to go out with 4 months ago.
We stop taking because he was tryinhg to be hard.
Getting in trouble going to jail so i stop talking to him and he stop calling me. Now i go with someone different. All of a sudden my ex starts calling me again. My boyfriend Mark gets mad at me. He wants me to tell my ex to stop calling but my ex claims he needs to talk to me. I made a promise that no matter what i would always talk to him in a time of need. But my boyfriend is overeacting. He's ******* pissed. what should i do or what would you do? Best answer 10 points + rank

Answer 1

You should tell your boyfriend about your promise to your ex and maybe tell him to let you be a good person and not renege on your promise, and just see what he wants. Reassure your boyfriend that you can be trusted, because it sounds like he might just be having a case of insecurity just because you're talking to a person you used to be involved with.

If your boyfriend is really stubborn and doesn't want you to associate with your ex at all, maybe then you should tell your ex that your boyfriend feels really insecure about you two talking together, and that you really wish that you could help him but your boyfriend comes first.Ask yourself this,"What's more important, my boyfriend's or my ex's feelings?

Answer 2

You must cut all communication from your phsyco ex. when men go to jail they fantasies what it will be like outside jail, and sometimes make up fake stories, in their mind, what their going to do who are they going to love, and how they going to love and stuff like that, they set their HOPE on this. And when they get out, they try to create or make happen, that image that they had come true (this is what they think is their hope). Not to mention that their violent. Men who act "hard" always get themselves in ugly situations. I can bet he would even go toe to toe with your current bf just cause he thinks he is big sh*t, and maybe hit you, and try to slap and hit you, just to let you know who wears the pants. If I was your boyfriend I would be fu*king pissed too. I would feel like, I would have to make a choice to fight this "hard" guy (which will do no good) or leave you. Why ? because this is your baggage that you brought to this relationship not your current bf. And personally your ex-bf sound like a control freak/ phyco, that will stalk people and weird stuff like that. So if he doesn't stop calling you after you CLEARLY TELL HIM, "I DON'T LOVE YOU, LEAVE ME ALONE, DON'T EVER CALL ME AGAIN" then its time to call the boys in blue and get a restraing order or whatever. I've meet guys like him before, all I can say is PHSYCO!!!

Answer 3

You need to talk to your boyfriend first, because he is being insecure...it is understandable that he doesn't want you to be close to anyone else but him, but obviously it is something important that your ex needs, well IT BETTER BE! but tell him your boyfriend it is an emergency and make sure it is really an emergency. Don't break your promise. Now if your ex is just all about B*u*l*l*s*h*i*t than curse him out and tell him to stop calling you and apologize to your boyfriend about all the misunderstandings and crazy chaos.

Answer 4

The past promise was only while you were together, not if you split up.

Never ever, let an ex, contact you and screw up a current relationship. This is wrong and your current bf is not over reacting, you should just stop.

Answer 5

It's difficult, because to your new man, it may look like you haven't really quit the ex. It's difficult to cultivate a new relationship with that hanging over your heads. Your ex needs to respect your new relationship, because it seems like he could be taking advantage of your good nature so long as you let him.

Answer 6

you've obviously moved on as far as the "body" part goes, now all you have to do is make your heart and mind follow. good luck with your situation.