I need help being more Christian Minded, and in my actions?

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I need help being more Christian Minded, and in my actions?
I try and try to be judgmental, and tell people that they are going to hell because they don't believe in our savior, but I just can't do it. Any suggestions on how I can judge others, but not take into consideration my own sins, and feel good about it? I know it's possible because I see people do it every day in this section. Do I need to give up on this whole "honesty with self" kick I am on? Or should I just make like everyone else and judge people on an impossible standards that even I cannot measure up to? Just curious. Notice I did not say I needed more help being Christ Minded. I have no trouble with that. His principles seem to agree with mine.

Answer 1

Poor fellow. Conscience got you down? I'm afraid you may not be cut out for judgementalism. You've got to learn to enjoy that smug arrogance of being better than everyone else. Maybe there's hope. Start by practicing in front of the mirror. Say: "Well, isn't that special?"

Answer 2

Are being cynical?? I am not sure I understand. It sounds like you are putting yourself and religion down. At first I thought you were maybe being sarcastic--saying you were trying to judge people and so forth, but then I wondered if this was a real dilemma for you. If you are being honest about your conflict then you should know that you are doing something wrong. You don't necessarily need to judge people. You need to think about helping them see what you have found. Make them want what you have--peace and fulfillment. It sounds like you are in some turmoil personally as well as with others. I think you are taking somethings wrong--misunderstanding. Everyone is a sinner. We need to let people know that and to tell them that Christians, etc. are sinners too. The great thing is that we can be forgiven and are promised salvation and so forth. Let them know what you believe and what the bible says. You don't go around just saying, "you are going to Hell if you don't change..." :) I know you don't do that --just kidding with you. But really--I use to have a hard time with that and I still do. It became a little clearer when the pastor started teaching us how to talk to others about Jesus. There is a certain scripture in the new testament about salvation. It is short and sweet right to the point. I can't remeber it exactly. :) But you need to stop thinking or dwelling on judging others and instead show that you care and show that you have been changed by God--through your actions and your lifestyle.

Answer 3

Well if your Christ minded, then you also know that CHRIST was not judgmental and he to forgave even when he didn't want to.

Go to these sites and read what is there. It is alot to read, but take your time with it
http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=118
http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=120
http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=124
http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?other=ot


Really focus on this one
http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=144


Passing judgment is a hard thing to do. Now in some cases, it may be justified, but in the end, Christ does al the judging. There is nothing wrong with living by a "honesty with self" policy. That is who you are and it should never be compromised for anyone. For example, is it ok to judge someone for having an affair with another person who is married and vice versa? Well, yes, but we also don't have the right to go up to them and tell them about their obvious flaw just because we think their wrong for doing so. Or if someone passed judgement on someone for their size, but the person passing the judgement hasen't worked out in months and isn't looking to hot themselves. All I'm saying is, passing judgment is really up to Christ. He does all the judging.

You know the bible verse " I can do all things through christ which strengthens me". Try asking christ to help you be more christian minded. It might seem like an unusual request, but it just may be the answer for you. When you seek christ, he will reveal himself to you. Ask him to help you to be more christian minded and honest within yourself and others. I hope this helps you. take care.

Answer 4

Ellis you don't try to be judgmental, you are judgmental. You judge yourself superior. Your ARROGANCE is apparent to everyone. You put down Christians but you do the very things that you accuse us of. You lack honesty. You think yourself to good to lower yourself enough to learn who Christ is.

As for judging. This Christian has never said that we are not to judge right from wrong or good from evil. We are told to do so. What we are not supposed to do is to judge anyone unworthy of hearing the gospel. People who don't know anything about the bible shouldn't quote from it.

Answer 5

judging others is a human weakness. You have to do your best by yourself to over come it. Do you know that Lord always speaks to you whenever you do wrong or right??? If you really trust Him you can easily get out of the problem as you have a close relationship with him.

So having a close relationship with Lord is the best way to become more christian minded. I personally have the Lord always on my mind in whatever I do, say and think.

Please try that. May God bless you.

Answer 6

Hey man. Rose here. Still tracking you. You are doing a good job :) I like your question. Makes people think. I think a lot of kind and non judgemental people (even if they are non Christians) are a lot more like Christ than actual Christians.
Why change your do?(hair)

Answer 7

your are a clown. not because you are not a christian, but because of this silly nonsense.

i dont see anywhere christians are judging you...just telling you what the Bible says. It is up to you to decide what you are ultimately going to do. I cannot make you do anything and my judgement on you woudl be meaningless and worthless. It isnt me that you have to impress so I would worry more about judgement from God than what smartass things people say on line.

Answer 8

As cliche as this might sound remember the W.W.J.D? tell yourself that everytime you have a decision to make. another thing...STOP BEING JUDGMENTAL!! alright sry too much yelling :) was Jesus judgmental? did he say "you're going to hell if you don't believe in my father"? no he treated everyone with love and kindness read the stories of Jesus and see how he reacted to the people who scorned him. (if you want to talk more IM me)

Answer 9

Thanks For Your Question :)

But even Muslims believe in Jesus that he will come in the end of days and save them from the anti Christ but he is still the messenger of God and not God so according to Muslims he is their Savior

Answer 10

you comprehend, I continuously had a difficulty going to church because human beings were so hypocritical. I had someone come as a lot as me to me in church once to inform me about my "sins" at the same time as their pregnant daughter walked up the aisle in virginal white. That became it for me. yet it is the aspect - when we are all judged, do you imagine God is going to settle for finger pointing with a view to excuse our own sins? "i did not settle for you Lord because all those human beings were jerks." form of appears like, "i did not do it ma because none of the different little ones were doing it!" It likely gained't artwork any more desirable with God then it does which include your mom. i imagine we can all might want to respond to for ourselves. I study that we would want to continuously save our eyes on God and no one else. straightforward to say, puzzling to do, yet no longer no longer achievable. walk your own walk with the Lord and do not look to the left or excellent - it is going to in basic terms area music you. i desire you discover your way.