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im 22 years old and i was dating a 22yr old guy but hes very childish and not to mention he always leaves me in the hang. one of our biggest fights is him never being on time....recently i meet a 30yr old(he looks 24) im able to laugh, joke and carry a conversation with him and hes always on time... what should i do. could he be to old for me or should i stay with they guy my age.

2006-07-18 16:25:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

Well firstly it sounds like the 22 year old isn't in the running as far as I am concerned. As for the 30 year old, that is the same age diff. as my boyfriend and I, and we have been together for 5 years now quite happily. It is not enough of an age difference to be a deciding factor. If you don't feel comfortable with the age difference that is fine (though you won't know till you try). Either way it sounds like the 22 year old isn't right for you from what you say.

2006-07-18 16:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by kneesox 2 · 1 0

First off, Age is just a number. I believe that if you have more in common with the 30 year old you should continue to pursue a relationship with him. Although don't rule out the guy who is your age or any other guy your age for that reason. Not all 22 year olds are childish or will leave you in the hang. I don't really believe that age is the issue here at all. Its about finding someone who you have an interest in. Keep looking until you find that person. No matter what age he is, or what age he looks. They're all going to be dead in the end.

2006-07-18 16:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by mocooterkat 1 · 0 0

I also happen to be 22 and the love of my life is 35. It was a little uncomfortable at first for my family ... well, not on their side, but I was a little embarrassed during introductions, since my dads only 4 years older!!! We've been together 4 years now and we're very happily engaged. The point is, when you love someone, age makes no difference. He's more mature than younger guys (except when he's hanging with his brothers or friends, LOL, that never changes) and he's much more respectful. On that note, if someone can't bother to be on time for you, then you aren't a priority in his life ... let him go!

2006-07-18 16:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by wildlotuspetal 3 · 0 0

You are 22 not 15, make your own choice. Just take your time with the older guy and make sure your comfortable with him in any situation or if you feel an awkward age difference. The choice is ultimately up to you. Its your life and you are old enough to decide whats best.

2006-07-18 16:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0 0

go for the 30 yr old he has already been through the childish things your 22 yr old is into. Worse case you & the 30 yr old break brake up you're not getting married.

2006-07-18 16:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by Renee B 1 · 0 0

If you don't like the guy you're with now, why are you still with him? You need to realize that you and the 30 year old guy are at two totally different points in your lives. You're kind of like stepping into the real world but he's been in the real world for awhile. It's going to be a bit tough because you're starting the chapter he's finished with.

2006-07-18 16:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Are you kidding? As long as you're both over the age of consent, then I could care less. That's nothing compared to Anna Nicole with that 90 year old man.

2006-07-18 16:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0 0

Age ain't nothin but a number.Throwing down ain't nothin but a thang. Have fun, if you wanna pursue the 30 yr old and your attracted then go for it. have no regrets. You will never know until you give it a try.

2006-07-18 16:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

theres a slightly a generation gap there, go along wif him, but play hard to get!! and lets c how long he can wait for u, i fear he will be demanding on yr whereabouts later on...so be a friend to him first, as for the 22 year old guy, ask me to get matured tell him stright to his face..so that he knows where he is. my opinion is, i always find the older the guy, the more nice n handsome thy r.....so everything is in yr hands....but dont go wif him to bed so fast...again! PLAY HARD TO GET n test his patience...u will c the true guy....

2006-07-18 16:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Calla 2 · 0 0

I think you're old enough to date anyone you want. Now if you were 16 and the guy was 30, that would be different.

2006-07-18 16:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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