I wait until a guy starts talking to me before I i.m him.. then after he i.ms for a while he wants to call and talk.. then i meet him.. we see each other on weekends for a month and a half.. he called me every night for a month.. then pooof.. gone.. no explaination.. was no fight or anything.. just gone.
I am sure it means he found someone else he is interested in now but..my question is.... why not even a goodbye or tell me to drop dead? nothing. i called like he said i should.. only twice after he disapeared.. and no call back.. and when i saw him on line i asked and all i got for a answer is "i am not talking to anyone right now, i have family and money problems"
No guts to end it all the way? or just wants to keep me on a string incase new girl doesn't work out?
What do you think?
2006-07-18 16:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by Ibdreamin099 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men can be self-centered. They want their cake & eat it too. Guess you met this man on line? Looks like he wanted one of several things. To make an X jealous? To show off to his friends that he has a girlfriend? Sex? If he vanished without the decency of an explaination, he's not worth you time or anyone elses. He'll do it again & again. Good ridence.
2006-07-18 16:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really does have "problems" -- just like he said -- and he doesn't want other people to see him when he is unhappy and depressed (I.E.: He is afraid that other people might think that he is weak if they see him crying & otherwise unhappy, because it implies that he is too immature to handle his own issues.).
Or maybe he is afraid that if he tells you that he is no longer interested in you, then you might start screaming and create an unpleasant scene (Or scratch his car, etc. We've all dated crazy people at some point). If he has been burned before by a physco ex-grilfriend, then he is probably thinking that it is easier to simply let the relationship fizzle out than deal with an ex-girlfriend who just might create a some un-necessary drama.
2006-07-18 16:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because those individuals are cowards... don't stress any of them... not worth the time or effort... I've been that guy... not worth losing sleep over... looking for a little fun... for a little while... and if things aren't perfect... poof... wish I could tell you more... but that's the simple truth... it's just the easy way out and most guys like it easy...
2006-07-18 16:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by redman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are dumb and need to grow up!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 16:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bethyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its time wasting.....
2006-07-18 16:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋