I dont know if I should but he said that If I do there would be a 5% chance that we will let me take him out to dinner but I would have to pay for it. I really like this guy. Hes so cute , but when you arent gifted with beauty like me , even a 5% chance is good enough. hes also on the college football team, hes very nice, and treats me good, but he tells me not to come up to him in public or around friends.
I know this is a weird question but I think I love him and am willing to wear the diaper and walk all over town and make baby noises. Isnt that what love is all about? sacrafice? going that extra mile?
2006-07-18 16:20:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he really sounds like a great guy, don`t let him slip away.do you have any money? give all of it to him. you crazy kids have fun.
2006-07-18 16:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by ozzyfanjordan 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
Oooookay..... Well, first thing first.
He's not the only guy in the world, you know.
He's not the only fish in the pond, and even if he is, we can always move to another pond.
He also FARTS like a normal person, BURPS like a normal person, SH1TS like a normal person, and by all means he's just normal.
Do you really think that YOU which I'm sure are pretty enough to get any other man (much better than this I'm sure) would stoop that low for a man like this?
Well, from your story I can tell you this. I'm sorry, but I'm about 95% sure he doesn't want to go out with you. Why? Because he asked you to attempt the impossible. That itself has proven that he's not serious about you. Which is not cool because you're actually ARE serious about him. Furthermore, when he told you not to come up to him in public, that means he's ashamed of you. YOU CANNOT GO OUT WITH A GUY WHO'S ASHAMED OF YOU. And even though he have the description of the coolest man alive (football team and all), still. A nightingale at your cage is better than a peacock at your yard. By all means, if he doesn't want you, why would you want him?
Well, if you ask me about love, yes, love is about sacrifices. But more than that, LOVE IS ALL ABOUT MUTUAL RESPECT.
It's probably easier said than done, but forget about him and move on. He doesn't even deserve your love, like, respect, whatever.
but more than anything, remember. Life is not all about finding that special someone.
2006-07-18 16:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by laidbacktionist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.... this guy is a real jerk. First off, you are worth more than 5% - I don't care what you look like. Any man that TRULY cares for you wouldn't ask you to do something so demeaning and hurtful just to get a date. Also guys are supposed to take YOU out, not you taking them out. I can deal with going dutch, but you pay for everything - NO WAY.
The way a man feels about you is shown in private and IN PUBLIC. If he's telling you not to talk to him in public, then he's ashamed to be seen with you. Ironically, that's how you should feel to be seen with him.
I know that you might feel that you're not a beauty queen, I'll tell you a secret - even supermodels have things about themselves they don't like. An even bigger secret - most of the world's most beautiful women were ugly when they were younger.
To answer your question, yes love is about sacrifice - but it's got to be a two way street. Is he willing to walk along side you in a diaper and make baby noises too? If not, then why on Earth would you? From what you've told us so far, this guy isn't worth the spit on a dog and you DESERVE way better than that.
What I want you to do is to ask yourself this. If your best friend, your sister, your mother asked this question to you, what would you tell her? Don't think with your heart, use your head. '
Lastly, I'm going to tell you that you need to love yourself a heck of a lot more than what you're showing in this question. If you don't like the way you look, then do something about it. Not for some Putz that doesn't know a great girl when he sees her, but for YOU. If you'd like to talk message me.
2006-07-18 16:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god. no that isnt what love is about. Love is him accpeting u for who u are and not making u make a fool of urslef for a 5%chance. he should like u for u not if u do some crazy stunt. U may think u love him and u might actually but to me this guy seems like a real big prick. I dont think he really treats u good because if he did he wouldnt ask u to do that. also if he asks u not to come up to him in public then i dont think he is worth it. u need to not be so hard on urself and respect urself because once u do u will find someone who is right for u. i hope u find someone for u but hopefully not this guy because he doesnt deserve u.
2006-07-18 17:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him bypass. If he needs you to 'do' issues for him to adhere round...let him bypass. it type of feels to me that he has no comprehend for you and perspectives you as determined and he's only making the request so he can snort at you once you do it and the only ingredient you'll do is make a fool out of your self and he nevertheless received't come decrease back. do not beg him. i understand it isn't basic getting on on my own...yet being on my own is larger than being with someone you're afraid is going to go away each and each and every of the time and doesn't comprehend you. the undeniable reality that you're begging him or maybe pondering doing this ludecrous ingredient leads me to believe that you've some shallowness subject matters. i imagine you should get counseling because if he does go away you and also you do not ascertain your own subject matters, then you definately ought to finally end up with someone worse. i understand it isn't basic to hearken to this-yet honey, you've gotta get out now once you've any desire of happiness in a wedding ceremony...and that i do not imagine that happiness is gonna ensue with this guy. let him bypass, change the locks and get a cat or 2. you'd be a great deal surprised how a lot a puppy facilitates...my cats have quite helped me get by potential of this previous 365 days with my husband overseas (i have not considered him in 11 months).
2016-12-01 21:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it menas he plans on humilating you
and he will NOT go out with you
he only intends to embarrass you in front of a crowd
you do not love him
your infatuated with him possibly, but not love
your lack of self esteem in yourself has you doing things to lower even more to get shot of a date ( 5% are lousy odds ),
best to tell him he must first go around in diapers ( preferably soiled ) and nothing else and maybe then you think you'll give him a 1% chance of dating a hot babe like yourself
that's the attitude you MUST take
stand up for yourself
2006-07-18 16:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is!!! Go 4 it! That sounds like true love in the making!!! Better yet, he's gonna let you pay for the *possible* dinner date? Dang girl...how did you get so lucky to find such a great guy???
2006-07-18 16:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend no guy is worth loosing your dignity over. I mean would he really do that for you? And if he really liked you then he would let you talk to him in public. Plus 5% is not even a half of a half. It is your choice I mean I cannot make this decision for you but you think about it. Is he really worth it?? Good luck
2006-07-18 16:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he treats you good?!? That is far from good! Do NOT do it! He is just using you and it's obvios he doesn't really like you. You should wait for a guy who'll like you for who you are, and won't make you do stupid things or who is embarressed to be seen with you. Cute or not, this guy is not worth it! It just takes some time. Wait and see!
2006-07-18 16:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by kittycat3190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear dont make an *** of u'rself for nobody if he really liked u he wouldnt ask u to do such a weird thing, as we jamaicans say 'every hoe have dem tick a bush' u'rs is out there some where and will accept you with all u'r faults - go hunting girl!
2006-07-18 16:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by babybounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's trying to take advantage of u... if he says u can't come up to him, well, i don't think that's actually very nice. a guy who loves u for who u are would want to go out with u, not make u do something for him. i don't know if i'd trust him, he might be just out for a laugh. i think love is about trust, loyalty, and just pure adoration of someone else. i don't think that's the extra mile- i think he's trying to humiliate you or something. to go the extra mile would be to go to lengths for love, but only in good ways. like trying really hard to make it to something they want u to see with them, etc. but i think... he doesn't sound very nice. good luck!
2006-07-18 16:25:09 · answer #11 · answered by hockeychickstagecrew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋