2006-07-18 16:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by Sanjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a simple form. Confidence. You could be the ugliest person, but with confidence you could conquer the world
2006-07-18 16:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rafael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, guys who get a lot of dates are funny and nice, but not in desparate way. The saying "nice guys always finish last" is not always true. The problem is that most nice guys are too nice. They are too available, and just like men, women want somewhat of a chase too. Don't be cocky, but have some self-respect. Don't hang all over her or call her every five minutes. Live your own life, but include her in it. The key is finding that balance between a manly man and a sensitive man!
2006-07-18 23:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by kelyi36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times it is a matter of self-confidence. Those who ask get dates---those who don't ask...never will. Apparently a guy's fear of rejection can paralyze him??? That's something you must overcome (though some deal with it far better than others.)
Physical attractiveness is a reality---some are more handsome than others...but all can be clean, well-mannered, put their "best self forward" when meeting a girl in whom you are interested. Have the confidence to strike up a conversation and then ask. All she can do is say, "...No, thanks." If she does, guess what? The sun still rises tomorrow and there are lots of fish in the sea!
Good luck---be confident!
2006-07-18 23:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by gapeach7355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times I find that the difference is a complete lack of consideration.. or a total lack of self confidence.. They guys who don't get any dates are probably the ones who will make the world's best husbands.. they are not in-your-face handsome and popular.. and they probably have intelligence and sincerity... whereas the guy who gets all the dates is so full of himself that he has to have every girl in sight just to prove... to HIMSELF.. that he is special.
2006-07-18 23:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the biggest one is confidence, and confident guy who asks out a lot of girls will have many girl friends.
example, I am not a confident guy, I have not been able to get enough guts to ask a girl out to date ( I am trying again tomorrow)
I am a good looking guy, and I have seen not good looking guys get hot girlfriends because they have the balls to ask a girl out.
Most guys are affraid to ask a girl out, thus a girl will probobly go out with you if you ask her, becasue it doesnt happen often, even for a hot gitl. Sometimes guys are way to affraid.
just do it, is what people tell me.
2006-07-18 23:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls obviously like the guys that get the dates..so wat i look for in a guy isnt always looks but a good personality..has to be funny...i loooove deep voices, idk why but i just do....um has to have a nice body or at least play sum kind of athletic sport (sry chess is not a sport and im not really feelin the skinny swimmer guys) umm if he can lean and rock wit me, thats hott! lol...he has to be a little smart...um no broke bois... if u rollin wit me, its all high maintenance and i shop ALOT so takin me to mickey d's for a date wont cut it....but to the physical part...he has to be at least a 6..AT LEAST...i usually look at the 9's b4 a six..but six's still have a chance ;-) .....confident guys are great! if u arent the greatest lookin guy, ur confidence and personality wit outshine that wit me!umm....skater bois i like the long hair....hood bois, low cut wit da waves or braids if u can work dat..... ummmm nice smile and nice eyes....oh he has ta have a good sense of style...i mean dont go out the house wearin sum holey drawers and a fitted cap thats not cho size! lol...anything that looks good on him works wit me! and thats pretty much it
2006-07-18 23:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Miss Brittany ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys with lots of dates are having the best time of their life while guys who don't get any are home :)
2006-07-18 23:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Zail-Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality. If you don't have the gumption to walk up to a girl and ask for a date, she's not gonna come flying into your lap. Most girls don't want wiennies who aren't man enough to ask them out.
2006-07-18 23:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Style in laughing off rejections and lots of cash.
2006-07-18 23:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Xanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all in your persentation, walk around the mall or some large area with your dick hanging out and see how many dates you can get, you know present your self.
2006-07-18 23:12:36 · answer #10 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋