Why doesn't the guy I like like me back?

Question

I have liked the same guy for 1 1/2 years now, but he doesn't show the slightest hint of liking me. I'm going into 7th grade next year, almost all the other girls i know have boyfriends. I feel very left out. My friends tell me all these things that he supposedly said/did thet make them think he likes me, but I think they are just being nice. The girl who he obviously likes is smart, pretty, and she loves sports. They are perfect for each other, but I have a lot of the same qualities she does. I'm smart, pretty, funny, and nice. Why doesn't he like me, or at least talk to me?

He is really nice, cute, and funny. I REALLY like him, and I don't think I could like another guy for a long time. Plus, there are no other guys in my school that aren't idiots, or that I just don't like. Except maybe one, but my friend is already thinking about what there kids will look like, so he's out of the question.

He is really nice, cute, and funny. I REALLY like him, and I don't think I could like another guy for a long time. Plus, there are no other guys in my school that aren't idiots, or that I just don't like. Except maybe one, but my friend is already thinking about what there kids will look like, so he's out of the question. I would settle for being Guy's friend, but I'm a little shy and don't talk to him much. He has other friends that are girls though. Do I have a chance?

Answer 1

Well we've all been there. I had a guy I liked for 3 years in junior high and all through high school. Then he graduated and I didn't see him again for a few years. When I did, Yuck. First off, your friends are trying to make you feel better so they are telling you every little thing he's saying hoping you'll see it as an opportunity. There's nothing wrong with that, they're your friends and they want to see you happy. The truth is, you can't force someone to like you. He is probably very aware that you like him, and if he hasn't talked to you or made any kind of move, then I'm sorry, but he's probably not interested. Could be that it's embarrassing that he knows you like him. Could just be that you're not his type. I know my answer sucks and isn't what you really want to hear, but I've lived it and I can tell you, if he knows and hasn't done anything, he's not interested.
Just like you can't control the way you feel about him, he feels this way about someone else. The good news is - there is some boy out there that is feeling the way you do about this guy about you. That's right, some unknown guy probably likes you and you haven't given him the time of day. Also, just because your friends have guys, doesn't mean that you should. I know it feels like you're being left out, but trust me, if you are all the things you say you are, there are a lot of boys out there that are going to like you just the way you are. You're only in the 7th grade - you've got so much time before you need to be worrying about these things. Besides, if you haven't already heard this, boys are stupid, and they don't get any smarter with age. Some of the dumbest guys I know are in their 30's. Just be yourself - there's a boy out there that likes you just the way you are. You won't have to wait for your friends to tell you, and you won't have to compete with some other girl. Above all else, you'll like yourself.

Answer 2

i was in ur same boat in 7th and 8th, except me and the guy are best friends , he even knows i liked him for a whole year but pays no attention to that fact and he likes all the girls that are stupider, uglier, and brattier then me! I just got over him after 1 and a half years and like this other guy u should do the same : )