ok im from a decent family and cant get one in my town. They mostly have high school education or less, but i ave university education so why now will talk to me . well i never directly ask, but they seem not to have an interest in me sexually.
2006-07-18 16:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by --------------- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you come on to strong and maybe your looking in the wrong places, when its meant to be your find a special girl that respects you and accepts you for who you are, just be patient all good things come to those who wait GOOD LUCK
2006-07-18 16:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by eyes_kitty_green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's your problem...you're not directly asking them. Maybe the girls you are drawn to prefer to have a guy that exudes confidence...if you're not coming right out and asking them to go out with you, then you're not coming off as confident.
Then again, if all you want is sex and they're picking up on that and that's not the only thing they want, then that could be why they're not talking to you as well.
Do you have any girls that you know on a friend level? Ask them to critique you and give you some pointers on what to do.
2006-07-18 23:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by AverageMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A feeling of insecurity, perhaps? Or the fact that you have a good head on your shoulders rubs them off the wrong way?
They probably feel intimidated by you, therefore not feeling they could measure up or something.
Either that or you haven't been dropping hints that you're as into them. Maybe try to be more approachable, warm & funny. Once the pressure's off, they'd be able to see you for the person you are.
2006-07-18 23:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to stereotype, but this is typical. It sounds to me like you're being a wussy man. And by wussy man Im talking like sucking up the girl, buy her affection/buying your way to her heart, treating her like a perfect angel all the time, being predictable, not being decisive ("I donno, where do you want to go/want to do?"). This is typical wussy man/nice guy behavior and it is NOT attractive at all to a girl. And it is all about attraction. Showing her the opposite of wussy man behavior like being interesting, cocky & funny, challenging, a good communicator, being assertive (knowing what you want but also taking other peoples ideas into consideration), and not being needy. Treat her like your bratty younger sister. Email me if you need more help. Good luck man.
2006-07-18 23:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take an inventory of yourself and see if you can come up with the answer.If your only looking for sex that maybe one reason.
2006-07-18 23:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone as a friend to start over with and dont even metion sex or love just be friends
2006-07-18 23:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is behind you
2006-07-18 23:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what u look for in a girl?
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2006-07-18 23:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by abitachick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you tried to get them? Please be more specific.
2006-07-18 23:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋