i am in middle school and need help
2006-07-18 15:46:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find your confidence!!! u cant do nething without confidence!!! once u find it, then make yr move, and then u do wat u do..
2006-07-18 17:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by La_Di_Da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like each other, then there's nothing to worry about. You should get together sometime on a date and get to know each other. Nothing is wrong with people being too scared to get to know each other. You guys are just shy. Ask him out the worst that can happen is he'll say no, or than he can't. If he asks you out, jump at the offer. And if you guys get together and you don't find anything in common or there's something you don't like , then just get away from each other and forget about him. Just don't be scared. You are the one who should ask for a date. He's a guy and your a girl, he's waiting g for you to make the first move. Have a great day and I hope you two get together! relationships are what keeps the world together.
2006-07-18 15:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by jhseekings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both are on an equal playing field of being shy, you're off to a good start.
You may have to be the more assertive one though. At this age boys tend to not know ANYTHING that's decent and in order. Sooo..put your best foot forward and set the pace.
Let him know you're interested but no touchy touchy, feeling you up. Keep it clean and respectable. You've got a lot of dating years ahead of you. You don't want to burn them up at a young age.
Never ever be alone with him, unless a responsible person is in the next room (preferably an older sibling or adult). Do not throw yourself at him when you get to know him better. As time goes by you'll have a tendency to become more relaxed around him, don't let your guard down and let your hormones take over (smile).
You're young go skating, biking, swimming, to amusement parks go places that are public. Steer away from the theatre scene. I know it's a popular place to meet, but hit the malls first. Keep it out in the open to keep temptation at bay.
Okayyy then go and have fun lol lol.
Peace Out.
p.s. Stay away from anybody on this site trying to get you to come off site to chat. Too many pedophiles out here.
2006-07-18 15:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by blakelycollierbrown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety, why dont you set a date,like a movie, go to the beach or do something you and him like together. Then once your alone just ask him so what do you like? Whats he into and ask him why does he like you. Just talk sweety im sure he'll talkback.If you like each other you guys will be open with each other. And by the time you know it you will know his likes and dislikes. You might even pick up something he likes doing and then you both might like it as well. Spend some together timewith talking and opening up to each other. It works thats how i met the man of my dreams. I just Talked and he talked back. And now we know each other very well. I hope i helped
2006-07-18 15:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you both are super shy , why don't you write him a note and say : Do you like me? Circle Yes or No... lol Sounds mad cheesy but you might get a good laugh out of him And also an answer ;)
2006-07-18 15:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have almost the same problem, i really like this guy and he seems to like me too, but i am too shy to ask him. my advise is sit him down and talk. In my book talking can tell you a lot about the guy, and if you can stand him! Talking can go along way, so yea that's the best advise i have for you.
~kay: good luck!!
2006-07-18 15:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kay22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same Position like u. I know how does it feels. I think u should give same space to talk. Plz don't force him to love u. Just relax and have a nice candle light dinner with him and leave all things on faith of god. God bless u . chow
2006-07-18 15:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the one to make the first move. Ask him out. Don't wait for him! The worst thing that could happen is if he loses interest and another girl gets to him first.
2006-07-18 15:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl, if you guys are shy, just keep it cool for a minute, but after a few weeks of keeping it cool- go ahead and claim your man!!! but dont put it out there that you like him a lot, just let him know that you are interested!!! feel me?! ask him if he wants to chill after school-or during lunch and get to know him when tha time is right to ask eachother out- YOU WILL KNOW!!!!!!
2006-07-18 15:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out tell what u like about him then ask him what he likes about u then tell hims so things about u then u ask him to tell u some things about him. tell him some funny jokes try to make him laugh see if he wonts 2 go on more dates or invite him over for a good movie that u think he might like.
2006-07-18 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a back bone and approch him on the subject. This is the best time in your life to do this stuff. Call it the practice years in your life.
2006-07-18 15:50:51 · answer #11 · answered by JENNIFER M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋