I recently started dating my exboyfriend's friend and roomate. Three years ago, he dated my sister. My sister is now engaged in a different relationship. We must keep our relationship a secret or his roomate (my exboyfriend) might get really mad. Should I continue with this relationship?
2006-07-18 15:17:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're having to be very secretive, something that can end a relationship very quickly. However, it also adds a certain spark to that relationship that you would not normally get. So, if you really like this guy, go ahead.
However, it seems as though your ex-boyfriend is having some problems if he gets mad at his roommate for dating you, especially if it was three years ago. He needs to get over it.
If it becomes too hard to be secretive, however, or if it is already, you might consider moving on, since that special spark only works if you're actually able to have the relationship. In other words, you might spend so much time trying to hide the fact you're dating this guy that you don't have a chance to actually date him. When that happens, move on.
Some might say that it is weird to date your sister's ex, but after three years I don't see it being a problem. Anyone who does is following some archaic, Victorian-era moral code that doesn't have any place in our society today...in my opinion, of course =P.
2006-07-18 15:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by MasterInsan0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Go ahead and start something beautiful with the new guy. You have my blessings. What ever you feel like doing. It is not a crime to date your ex-boyfriend's roomate. There is no law in the world can stop you dating the guy.
2006-07-18 15:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by torontofabsingle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way, if your sister dated your ex, would YOU be okay with it? If you would, also keep the fact that they have a child together, so that's basically like, to the daughter, her dad dating her aunt... Just keep that in mind, but ultimately it's up to you and him and how you feel about it. Hope that helped. xo
2016-03-26 23:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you feel about this guy? If you like having a relationship that has to be hidden, then go ahead. I think that was one of those fine lines that you should not have crossed. You should never date a guy your sister was involved in. It all just sounds like your both being a little immature about it. Dont be so desperate. (I mean that in a nice way :)
2006-07-18 15:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by AstonishingAries<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long can you keep a secret like that? Sooner or later one or the other will find out, and then what.
You know your ex's reaction, what about your sister's.
I think you are heading for trouble real fast.
2006-07-18 15:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think not wheter your sister has stop dating 3years ago it make no sense dating him because in the long run you two might have an argument and he might tell you that your sister is better in doing this and that,go out and find someone difference that didnot have any attachment to your family.
2006-07-18 15:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by april 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,You are not with your exboyfriend anylonger.I understand he might get upset becuase he is his friend.One is going have to learn to let go.Dont end it becuase somone else might get mad.Only end it because you two dont love each other any more.
2006-07-18 15:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww... its not only weird... its disgusting... lucky for him, he can say he did both sisters!
it doesnt matter if she's engaged... and your hiding of this relationship only shows that you think its wrong too. if i was you, i would find myself a new man... someone who doesnt know your sister or your ex boyfriend. how hard is that?
2006-07-18 15:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it's not right.........m talking abt yor sister. She's gonna feel hurt and this might strain your relationship with your sister. How are u goin to go for your sister's function and bring your sister's X with u.Who cares abt your X-bf.......It's his lost .too bad.........but think of your sister...She's your family.
2006-07-18 15:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be honest with those around you regarding a relationship, perhaps it's not the best idea.
2006-07-18 15:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by peacein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋