2006-07-18 15:16:31 · 15 answers · asked by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably need some "lube", whether it's vaginal or anal, it shouldn't hurt regardless. If he's got kinda long or raggedy fingernails, that may be a contributing factor. Only other thing I can think of is, if he's just started doing it, he's inexperienced and doesn't know how to work it.......have him use his tongue instead.
We women have to teach our men how we like it and for most of them it's always a learning experience.......Does he know that he's hurting you or are you keeping your mouth shut because you're afraid he'll feel "inadequate" in satisfying you. You'd be better off being diplomatic about it and "help" him stimulate you. This way it can be enjoyable for both of you w/o anyone getting hurt...
2006-07-18 15:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Borinquena 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He must be doing it too hard or in the wrong part. Try it softer or in different areas and see if that helps any. If that doesn't work may be there is something wrong. But I wouldn't worry because a lot of people are very sensitive and don't enjoy this or need it done gently.
2006-07-18 22:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian Salgado Lopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs to cut,file and check his nails for hang nails and rough spots. It can make a little cut in there and you could get an infection. Who wants more pain right? There is enough in this world.
2006-07-18 22:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood how "fingering" would be enjoyable in the first place. It just seems more than a little pathetic to me....
2006-07-18 22:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are his fingernails to long??? That somtimes hurts me.. Or mabey hes just using to many fingers...
2006-07-18 22:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by kreepyemily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS OBVIOUSLY DOING SOMETHING WRONG. HE SHOULD TRY A LITTLE TENDERNESS. SLOW DOWN AND TAKE HIS TIME. THERE IS NO RACE WHEN HE IS TO THAT STAGE. YOU ARE LETTING HIM DO IT SO SLOW DOWN AND ENJOY IT. DON'T BE SO AXIOUS THAT IT HURTS HER. KEEP THAT UP AND SHE WON'T LET YOU DO THAT NO MORE. THEN WHERE WILL YOU BE ? BEATING OFF IN THE CORNER!
2006-07-18 22:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by BOOMBOOMBILLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him lick it first get it all nice and wet then if it still hurts then you might be twisted up inside called endomytriosis but make him get it wet first
2006-07-18 22:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where does it hurt? Eitherway, he's probably doing it too hard.
2006-07-18 22:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yall need to make out first so you can get wet. if its dry, ITS GOING TO HURT
2006-07-18 22:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't know how to do it. I t don't supposed to hurt it supposed to feel good.
2006-07-18 22:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋