Independent guy seeks loving girl?

Question

I'm an independent guy who does not need a woman to be happy, but I imagine that if I had a smart, beautiful and interesting woman to share my life with, I'd be happier. Women: would you date a (girl shy) guy who just doesn't respond to clingyness, possessiveness, bullying, and, well, stupidity?

Answer 1

You sound like the exception to the rule, and as long as HONESTY is something you adhere to, then I have no doubts you'll find exactly the woman you believe would make you happy!

I can understand about the clinginess (is that really a word???), and being possessive....the bullying I tend to find abhorrent myself (in men AND women) and believe it's called "hen pecking" (where women are concerned.) As for stupidity, I also believe that goes both ways too.

I've found, through my own mistakes in the past, that being clingy, being possessive....comes from not being confident in me, in who I am. As I've gotten older....I've seen that how I used to be, how I used to act, wasn't the "real" me, but a person who was in hiding, who didn't think she was attractive, who hated the person she was, and what she looked like. Since I've changed how I look outside, I've noticed that who I am inside has also changed. And maybe that's something all women go through at one point in their lives.

Men have a hard time understanding us....but in reality, we're basically still those little girls, who try too hard to please, who think that being who you WANT us to be, will make you love us that much more. Life, unfortunately, doesn't work that way, and it takes time...and a few hard knocks in life... for us to realize that.

A woman who is confident in herself and in what she believes YOU think of her, in her looks, in who she is, who is comfortable with having her own "time" and giving you yours with friends or the boys, who doesn't hen-peck or bully and who is intelligent.....is a woman who's more mature, who's seen a bit of life (the good AND the bad)...who's constantly striving to learn, and who knows you take days one at a time, but who also knows the value of a life well-lived, and how to plan for the future.

So....finally, I'm sure you're saying....in answer to YOUR question.... YES, I'd date a guy like you, because I am NONE of the above you stated. And since I'm rather outgoing....you being shy is good, because I tend to talk quite a bit and would make up for the lack of that on your part! :)

Answer 2

do no longer provide up. adult adult males are jerks. i'm one myself. yet look, maximum females that whinge approximately this form of component enable it to take place. in case you enable a guy to handle you undesirable or destroy out with stupid component.... then he will. you're able to desire to be administration... no longer over controlling yet on top of issues or your self. If he performs around or say issues that don't upload up... question him on it. The trick is to make him chase you no longer you chase him. the main considerable component to remember is to no longer assume something.... once you assume issues and are not getting them you sense sadness and that's once you provide up. study from this relationship and pass on... what does no longer kill you're making you greater effective. Be good.... actual adult adult males want a good female to lower back them. Jerks will in basic terms play video games and get you presently the place.

Answer 3

Absolutely, however in my experience, I always find the guy who says that and when they realize I'm that girl, they need me to be something different!!!

Best of luck to you though!!!

Answer 4

i am single and looking for a bf

Answer 5

try MySpace.

Answer 6

maybe