and it is/was hard to decide whether something is the truth or not? And you want to believe that its the truth....... but worried that its not the truth....... what do you do?
2006-07-18 15:08:54 · 13 answers · asked by Coodles 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but only confused when people here are soooo jealous that they try every trick and lie in the book to try and sway your decision...remember go with what you think to be real and nevermind all the drama anyone anywhere tries to sell you. **hugs** don't forget our movie this weekend...wink..wink
2006-07-19 11:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes! About a hundred times! What did I do? What does anyone do? You be confident in yourself and do the right thing. That's why we learn manners. Manners give us time to get to know someone. He doesn't call? Find something else to do. He speaks rudelly to you? Tell him/her that you're attracted to polite people. Are your feelings hurt? You can always put a little distance between yourself and the other person. Most of all, if you are nice to others, they will follow your lead and treat you well also. If not, why would you want to be with them ? Aren't you worth a lot ? Of course you are! Now go out there and find all of those wonderful people who you want to be friends with.
2006-07-18 22:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by AMELIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya that's happened to me
it's really hard...but i guess what u need to decide is whether u trust them more than u trust ur gut. the way i thought through it was that if u decide to end the relationship, it's not very likely u'll ever get back with them. i stayed in the relationship until i was totally convinced they were lying and something was wrong with our relationship. whatever u do, just try to make sure u don't regret it afterwards. good luck!
2006-07-18 22:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by dbz8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been in love with this guy i met online for 4 years.. at first those feelings were so strong.. though later it seemed that he was just "too busy" to even have time for me.. i was confused about what i should do.. i talked to him about it.. got tired of being the last to do on his list. talking on here is like everything we got! and we couldn't talk on the phone back then.. anyway he started to show up everyday before work because he was afraid of losing me.. for a while then he just stopped.. i didn't know what to think.. did i really need to tell him to pay a little mor attention to me? .. anyway i took a break.. i thought about it later and told him it was best to end it.. it was just so clear that it wasn't as it used to be. trust me no one wanted us to work more than me.. but i learned not to build my dreams on a specific someone but just to have a man that would make me happy.
2006-07-18 22:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the words that come out of someones mouth don't quite "feel" right. then deep down in your gut you alredy know the truth. when the words and the feelings do not fit together, then the words... are just words. you already know the truth you gut is screaming at you, listen.
2006-07-18 22:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i wish i had an answer for ya cause then i'd beable to answer my own. I'm caught in the same mess and don't know what to do ,, do we believe or not! Good luck to you just keep open eyes and ears and hope we make the right decision.
2006-07-18 22:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either trust the person who you are questioning. Or do some investigation work.
1st ask yourself.. is the answer really worth the worry?
2nd. will it make a difference tomorrow?
3rd will i love/like this person more or less ?
2006-07-18 22:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct. Chances are though that he really is as big as a dog as what your gut is telling you!
2006-07-19 09:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Ken'sBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the truth that I have no idea what the hell you are trying to say.
2006-07-18 22:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask atleast 3 friends what their opinion is ...ive found that even if its not what i want to hear my friends are always right and see things before i do
2006-07-18 22:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by pezilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋