i'm so shy?

Question

I have this bf that i can't even say "baby" to casually when talkin to him on the phone! U guessed it i AM young so. . . how should i say it? should i answer like "hey babe!" or what. i just don't wanna sound CHEEZY. ya know? (i'm 13)

Answer 1

The most important thing about relationships is that they're open. Communication is so important! Maybe if you were more open to each other you wouldn't feel this way. Don't worry, it's not like he's going to dump you because you said "Hey babe!" on the phone (and if he does well then babe, he's a freak). Just say it! If nothing else you can laugh about it.

Answer 2

Well for me what I do is sometime I say hey babe or are u my babe just little things. But u could ask him what if I give u a pet name what would u do. Some guys like. But u can try it on the phone so it would be little easser that way u would know how it would take it before u tell him in person.

Answer 3

you have not reached a comfort zone with in yourself so give it time and things will start to become allot easier for you and you will be able to express yourself allot more than you can now
remember you are only young so give it time

i hope it happens for you, good luck

Answer 4

You'll get over it. Just continue talking to boys and the shyness will pass.

Answer 5

just say whatever it is that feels comfortable to you i mean many different people come up with many different names to call their bf's or gf's so do whatever feels right to you and if nothing feels right to you yet then just call him by his name.

Answer 6

just give it some time... get comfortable with him

Answer 7

STOP LYING... U R AN UNDERCOVER FREAK