We have communicate pretty well on email, but I feel like he's put me down, when he says I will call you tommorrow, but then he did not, and only wanted me to email everytime, like using my yahoo email, for personnel things, but then he does not, so I don't know whether he is being honest to me or not, as this has been going on for almost seven (7) years and he still does not make up his mind. He even said he will be away for so long and then later I will receive his email, and said he has come back because of this and that. But like I said I do not know how to believe him, because he is single and I am a WIDOW. I love him and I want him to honest to me. Please can you help me with my queries, thanks.
2006-07-18 14:36:48 · 15 answers · asked by Loloma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm, have you ever seen him? Or her? Or it? You never know who is really on the other end of an email.
2006-07-18 14:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Well, first, you were right ini what you said, he is an email boyfriend - nothing more. The fact that in 7 years he hasn't had the decency to speak with you over the phone is just a disgrace. Why are you staying? I feel you deserve more. He (if it's really a he) is playing with your emotions. You can't want someone to be honest with you who has shown time and time again that they are not trustworthy. Figure out the best way to wean yourself away from this relationship, find something else to preoccupy your time, and stop using the email account. Good luck.
2006-07-18 21:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever met this guy ? Base on the Red flags this guy have raised i would not want to meet such a person or have any thing to do with him.
This guy to me is feeding off your vulnerable side as you are a widow and his friendship base on what he writes have been a source of comfort for you. If after seven years he is not honest he will not ever be, and you are doing your self a great service in seeing him for what he really is.
I'm not here to write he is a this or that, as that is some thing you will have to determine for your self.
2006-07-18 22:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never met him how do you know it is even a guy.
Because he says so? Some people make a game out of it and change sexes. Make up fake people. Some have 6 or 7 E mail addresses. hotmail.com some of them are girls sometimes they become guys. Then get myspace.com home pages for these people.
Cut out pictures for myspace out of the catalog or magazines.
become all ages and all types of people. One lady confessed she even used a voice changer to change a women's voice to a man's to be able to keep talking to this women. But she insisted that if she didn't call she wouldn't talk by E mail anymore.
When you e mail you actually don't know who you are talking to.
2006-07-18 21:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding??? 7 years... think about it. He's not who he says he is! Don't waste your time. Get out and meet real people! If you meet someone online, and don't at least talk on the phone with them within a week, then move on. Block his emails. You don't really love him!!! You don't even know him.
2006-07-18 21:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seven years is a long time. i'm sorry , but i feel he is just using you. he probably has plenty of girlfriends, that he is emailing just like he is you. i know it is painful to think about. my ex use to chat with me and when i got on his computer one day i found out i was'nt the only one. maybe it is time for you to log off and try to find a decent man in the real world. you seem like a nice person, i hope you find someone worth your time.
2006-07-18 21:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having been emailing each other for 7 years, you really should make up your mind whether to get into a face-to-face relationship with you boyfriend or to get rid of him totally. why not just invite him for a dinner out. if he shows up, let him know what you want; if he does not or tries to postpone it with his so-called reasons, i guess it is time for you to say good-bye to him.
no matter what the result is, i wish you all the best.
2006-07-18 21:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by sheelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have learned a very important lesson in that, while there are some honest and legitimate people online, there is also scum-sucking trash too!
Please find someone who will really appreciate you!
2006-07-18 22:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he really want you in his life. Forget about him. Find someone close to your eyes. I'm sure a lot of man surrounding you and put interest to you. Take it easy. Good luck!
2006-07-18 21:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by mohdsyahnis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID U EVER THINK, U MAY NOT B THE ONLY E-MAIL GIRLFRIEND, HE HAS???????????
DUMP EM,
UNLESS, U R CLOSE ENOUGH,
2 B ABLE 2 C EACH OTHER IN PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 21:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by bobby-bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋