i have a good stable relationship with my bf. But there is someone else i love. should i dump my current bf to be with this new person ( a big uncertainty).i risk losing everything i have now yet i cant get my mind off this other guy. he is not from SG and i may have to give everything that i have now to be with him. i know that i can lead a good life with my current bf but i don't know about this new guy. Though this new guy feels like everything i eveer wanted in my life. there is so much uncertainty, what should i do?? How do i find out who i truly love? who i should be with? who will be good for me?
2006-07-18 14:29:41 · 3 answers · asked by beyond paradise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same thing bout 7 months ago and if your not completly in love with your bf and you have feelings for someone else you should think very carefully what you want. if you choose your bf get the other guy outta your head, if you choose the other guy then break up with your bf. DONT cheat whatever you do.
Goodluck and if you wanna chat contact me.
2006-07-18 14:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings are always like that. you have just to weigh the pros and cons. to me, if i were in your shoes, probably i will just take a break from everything (dont even contact your current bf and the guy). then think through everything. i will ask myself if i really like my current bf. its really not worth to give up everything just for the new guy. its not really worth that risk like what you said above.
2006-07-21 09:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just feel very sorry for your bf to have a gf like you....you should learn to cherish loved ones around you and not take things for granted...
2006-07-18 21:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anythingoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋