for women only?

Question

what is the first thing you look for when you consider a male for relationship? and do you usually look for a male companionship at a bar? do women actually have any success at finding someone at a grocery store/Mall?

Answer 1

people find eachother at all diffrent types of places... it depends on what you are looking for...

Answer 2

The first thing I look for in relationships with guys is the comfort factor- I could say anything, and they won't think its a typical chick answer, also I have brothers, and most of my friends are guys, so its easy to talk to guys. I don't really look for friends at a bar considering that I work in a place with a bar, but the guys there are genuine, and nice- I've been hit on by guys in my workplace's bar, but more friend and easy to talk to. In the grocery store and mall, its kinda hit and miss, you go to look and there could be something you like, but your having to go rush off to something else, or you can miss a great guy all together. Mainly, since I'm kinda a loner, I usually listen alot to people's conversation, and start conversations- I've sat for a couple hours at school and was studying and talked with people who sat at my table because there was no other room. So, if your gonna look for relationships, do what feels right, and feel confident in what your bringing to the table.

Answer 3

Bars and Grocery stores are human meat markets. Men should appeal to a woman's needs as a human being first, kindness, compassion, courtesy, can he speak in full sentences? does he still live at home? does he work or is he a student? take a long look at what you expect to find in a man and a relationship before shopping at the bars, malls or the grocery store.

Answer 4

The most success you will have is finding someone through your friends. I find that the bar/club scene is played out and too much of a game. I think that finding someone at the grocery store sounds like a movie.

Answer 5

When dating...I found good relationships with people interested in doing the same things I was doing...exercise, outdoors, church ect. I never found anything but a great time at a bar, and food at the grocery stores. As for the Mall...usually they were teens. I found alot of interesting people online. I found my husband on yahoo personals. I guess it also depends on your comfort level too. Good luck on the dating.

Answer 6

When you first meet anyone, looks count. Luckily most people find different looks attractive. After that, personality counts. I never look for a man in a bar. I know that there are a lot of them available there but what would anyone do with one of them? Meeting people at different places is usually the best way. Try joining clubs, groups, go to church, even health clubs are good.

Answer 7

I look for eye contact- but not the creepy staring kind. If he can look me in the eye when he talks to me, and actually listens to what I'm saying, that's a good sign. I never ever tried to pick up in a bar...how lame. All the guys in bars do is chat you up, and move on to someone else later on, or the next night. Guys who try to pick up in bars, in my opinion, are players. Go through friends, work, join some sports- like volleyball.

Answer 8

Well, I work the mall at Abercrombie and Fitch and American Eagle, so yes, at the mall is definitely a great place to meet a guy, and you'll definitely see a lot in those two clothing stores, especially cute ones. I also agree that through friends you could end up meeting your soul mate. My friend is giving me all of his buddie's s/n so I can chat with them and hopefully meet mr. right, and yes they're military studs.

Answer 9

When considering a male for relationship, I question their respect for life, their participation in it, and whether or not they nurture the quality of it. I would not consider bars, malls, and a grocery store a link for the purpose of finding a date. Thanks for asking.

Answer 10

Well I look at the over all guy not just looks!! but I go for a guy that's taller and bigger than me!! I have had no luck at bars or stores most guys I have went out with I meet online and this free dating site www.plentyoffish.com try it its great!! I have to warn you though alot of ppl are only after sex!! wish i could find a nice guy that's wants to go out!!

Answer 11

Someone who is not checking out all the chics around him and flirting with everyone. eye contact and that one on one personal contact. Showing complete interest in what you are saying. I do know people who have even starting talking at the gas pumps and hooked up. Yes, it's possible you can meet great women anywhere. Have an open mind.