2006-07-18 14:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by J J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I actually consider this; but sometimes also of never getting married because no men seem to want to accept this.
Men have a problem not understanding this (as cited above). Women's sexuality goes beyond the physical and into the emotional, sensational, spiritual etc and men are just limited to the physical so they dont understand that we are sexual even without sex. Also, we love without physical expression- the two are not the same thing and men again tie these two inseparably together just because they are so hormonal about it- now since when did they have the authoriy to make all the definitions for both sexes, when they are just one??
Yes you can. Yes I am sure there are men who are mature and wise enough and loving ewnough to actually L-I-S-T-E-N to what their woman syas, wants, feels, needs- if she needs more or less, or maybe ven nothing. A right man would not criticise you as abnormal or condmen you saying theres something wrong with you becase you are actually thinking of yourself instead of him all the time. I know there are men like this.
Also consider dry sex or solo sex that is mutually shared- there doesn;t have to be full coital sex to enjoy a shared sex life (unless this were the entire intention, nothing whatsoever). Toys, yoga, massage, and all kinds of play except sex can be highly erotic, pleasurable, enjoyable and most of all educational and attuning to each others emotions, body, mind, drive and so on.
I look forward to it! Now if some guy could just understand me...
Because a marriage is definitely more than just the ability to have sex with someone. It's about dreaming up, working for, and enjoying a life together. It's about ambitions and impact and productivity on a common ground. It's about loving the person you are with (being in love with them.) And most obviously, it's about respect. So if you dont have respect, what kind of a marriage is it anyway?
Loving a person and having a desire for their body are two different things- yes there is overlap, as in loev can produce desire, (but not the opposite!!) but still these are two different entities....
2006-07-18 14:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Yentl 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world would you want to do this? Any guy who suspects this might be the case should flee before the wedding. No one wants to deal with some psychotic, paranoid, hung-up, dysfunctional woman.
2006-07-18 21:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...NO! Not if your normal with no disorders that prevent you from actually having sex, say a fear of touching maybe??? If you love your man you're gonna want to jump his bones...sorry...thats all there is to it.
2006-07-18 21:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can love a man and never have sex sex doesnt mean u love them u love them for them not for sex.....they should except u for u and except ur choices
2006-07-18 21:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by LoveLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically yes. But why would you want to? If you truly loved him, you would easily be able to express it to him in that manner after marriage.
2006-07-18 21:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by big_j_gizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not after your married. Mabey before but not after.
2006-07-18 21:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Curious George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should win an award for stupidest question ever asked.
2006-07-18 21:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i'll just find sex somwhere else, he's probably doing the same thing
2006-07-18 21:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by blak_gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-18 21:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Alexis M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right?
2006-07-18 21:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋