I decied to invite my best friend, her boyfriend, and my boyfriend over as a double date when I started to realize that my best friend is flirting with my boyfriend. Then she started to sitting on his laps and inviting him over to her house later without inviting me or her boyfriend. I thought this was really strange so after they left i went to talk to my best friend and i asked her if she like my boyfriend and she yes. What do I do??
2006-07-18 13:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to stay friends with her since she is your bestfriend. Ask if your boyfriend has any feelings for her what-so-ever (as in crush or in love). It also depends on how jealous you feel and how much you like/love your boyfriend.
-If he says no to those types of feelings toward your bestfriend-Straighten her out on the subject and try to get her to go for someone else.
-If he says he does fell something like that towards your best friend
A.Dump him
B.Ask if he likes her more than you.
-If he likes her more than you I'd dump him.
2006-07-18 13:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why you never bring your friend around your man, i'm a female but you can't trust other females. They would take your man right under your nose, so either get rid of her or him. But think about it, if you get rid of them both don't be surprise if they start dating. So look out. And she's not a friend anyway.
2006-07-18 14:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by B.A.P.S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think its great that the two most important people in your life are getting along so well. If only we all could have this situation. My wife hates all of my friends.
2006-07-18 13:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that a reu friend would not try to date a ex or current boyfriend no matter what she feel's.
2006-07-18 13:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let he have him, and be done wtih your bestfriend. She was not your friend to begin with if she did that behind your back. There are more men and you can make more friends.
2006-07-18 13:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by LostIndian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i had that same prob. but this is how i worked it out i said to her look i love being your best friend and i love you but you have a bf and i have a bf you may not want yours anymore but i want mine now you may like him a lot but you are juss gonna have to deal with the fact that he is "mine not ours"
2006-07-18 13:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to yo boyfriend and see if he likes her and if he do then u should juz let them go together but if he dont make it clear to her that he is your boyfriend and remind her she has a man
2006-07-18 13:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by mzdbwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a best friend to me!
2006-07-18 13:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut Her OFF! and if the bf likes her as well he gotta go.
2006-07-18 13:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by purple_dogs_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy tell her to back off ...this is totally against bf rules never do that
2006-07-18 13:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋