im not virgin, if i got marry, is there any chances for my husband to find out?

Answer 1

Wow! Some people really didn't read the question.

Ok. It depends how much over you're not a virgin. Have you had sex only once? Twice? Five times? More??? If more then twice depending on how long it's been yes. If once maybe twice, no. After the first, say two, times you have sex you are still a little tight (of course depending on how big the guy (s) was/were that you slept with. There are a lot of variables.

I say that to say this:

My advice: Be honest. If your future hubby can't take the truth then you'll have to suffer the consequences. But if he's a big enough man he'll get over it. Better that then risk having him find out you've been lying to him.

Best Wishes!

Answer 2

You should share this information with him before you plan the wedding.

To answerer #1: My husband stood at the alter as a 33 year old virgin. I lost my virginity at age 14, almost 20 years earlier, and certainly had no lack of sex in the mean time.

Honestly, the way he hooked me is because he was able to tell me he loved me without it translating into "I want to jump your bones."

There are still men out there who hold chastity as an important thing. I would be honest with your future husband though. Don't go into a marriage with that lie hanging over your head. If he ever finds out, he'll always be wondering what else you're hiding, and he'll use it as ammo in every arguement you ever have.

Answer 3

Ya if you don't scream hard enough! I know I shouldn't be telling you this but I got the best excuse for you. Here it is and so is the link to finding that great lie you are looking for?

Females who are virgins usually have a hymen, a very thin piece of skin-like tissue that stretches partly across the opening of the vagina. Some females may bleed slightly the first time they have sexual intercourse because the hymen permanently breaks. But not all females bleed the first time they have sex. That's because some girls have thinner hymens than others, and some are born without a hymen - which is perfectly normal.

Answer 4

Why would you be untruthful with your future husband? That does not sound like a very good way to start off your marriage.

There is no real way for your husband to know if you are a virgin or not. There isn't really a sign or anything. Some gals bleed, some don't.

Answer 5

Starting a marriage with hiding a secret? Why even think about keeping something so basic from someone you want to share your life with, when you have to be able to trust each other. Dishonesty will always come out eventually, and trust is extremely hard to repair. If you really love him, you need to have a serious talk. Before walking down the aisle.

Answer 6

yes your husband will find out. If you are a virgin, when the man penetrates you, your hymen usually breaks and the man can feel this when it happens. If there is no tearing of the lining, your husband will know that he is not your first.

Answer 7

yes he would know that you are not a virgin but you can douch before intercourse and that would make it tight like a virgin but you will not bleed like a virgin so there is a 50/ 50 chance that he would find out that you are not a virgin.

Answer 8

Like you aren't going to sleep with any potential "husbands" before you get married LMAO!!!

Answer 9

This is the 21st century. Tell him, if he can't handle it, then he'll probably be a jealous control freak as a husband.

Better to know now. Is he a virgin?

Answer 10

Keep it real with him, a lie now is two lies tomorrow. He is marrying you not virgin status.