or should I try to be her friend first?
2006-07-18 13:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay.....takes things slow be her friend 1st then see where that goes. but you can tell her that you like her. let her know that you are interested in her. yes go for coffee, dinner or whatever as friends. have a casual talk......get to know one another. after that let her make the move later on. if she dont then you make the 1st move......that is after you both have known each other for a while. i know its tempting to want to date but just be friends.
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU SWEETIE.
2006-07-18 13:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should try to show her that u care her alot. At the first meeting plz don't say"I love u". Just pick the proper time and when u think ur love is on the verge then ask for the date. Best of luck
2006-07-18 13:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by bono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet her for the first time and ask her out, then you can't have met her already, meaning you couldn''t have already asked her out after the first meeting...
Ok, try "Do you believe in love at first site"? If she says yes, then you are in with a shot. othewise, just try to be friends.
2006-07-18 13:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me and my boyfriend were friends for years before he asked me out but we never went out places n met up with each other we just talked to eachother online and on the phone. we met in school. but later we met twice and he asked me out after the second time. i thought it was a little weird because we had only met up twice, but we were good friends first. the freinds thing helps alot. so id say try to be her friend first
2006-07-18 13:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hearts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out immediatley.
But dont act like a macho...thats uncool...instead be friendly (not a friend) and she will be yours.
Ah, never ever ever start a relationship with friendship...there is no way to go from friendship to a relationship in girl's mind. Trust me!
2006-07-18 13:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Umpalumpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if some guy ask me in first meeting to go out may be i will run away , sure dont do that u should be a clos friend then ask here.
2006-07-18 13:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by dodo y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get to know her a little better first, maybe after like 4 or 5 times going out. take your time you don't want to make her feel like you are smothering her
2006-07-18 13:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by sabre6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her if she would like to go for coffee or something first. Be her friend first get to know her likes, dislikes, she will want to know yours and then take it from there. Good luck.
2006-07-18 13:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out or else she some other guy may ask her first then you will be stuck as just a platonic friend.
2006-07-18 13:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO...give her time. Bcome friends go for 3 dates then ask her out or start flirting with her!
2006-07-18 13:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Celetatious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋