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I am so lonely! I have never had a boyfriend before, and I'm sick of not having one. Could someone please give me advice?

2006-07-18 13:37:25 · 18 answers · asked by farrah 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Pray for a good boyfriend to come into your life, work on loving yourself, take care of yourself, and never change for anyone. Just be yourself because God made you beautiful and you are never alone. I will pray for you to receive a good boyfriend. Good luck. You will find the one that you're looking for.

2006-07-18 13:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 2 0

Meeting some one is all around you when you go to the bank, mall etc..The big problem is finding some one that is good quality boyfriend material and not only after sex.

Have you ever sat down and put on paper what you are looking for in a boyfriend and not settle for any one to tell your friends you have some guy in your life.

There are places you can go to find some one like may be a cooking class, were there is some interaction between you and other people in preparing some recipe. It could be some volunteer group or some activity were you can meet some one.

A book fair etc the list is endless. Those examples are to give you some idea as to were to look. Avoid the bar scene or Disco as you run the risk of meeting some one you don't want to have in your life. Finding some good quality person is going to take time and effort on your part as nothing good comes easy in life as well as in relationships.

2006-07-18 21:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0 0

Depends how old are you? If your over 18 you could post your profile on yahoo personals. If not just goto the beach.

If you notice a shy guy that looks at you a couple of times he probley would like to get to know you but just has alot of anixity to talking to you.

Its ok for a woman to ask out a guy.

2006-07-18 20:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Frak 3 · 0 0

Put an ad in the paper? "Wanted: boyfriend, preferably in good condidtion. Call 123-555-6789" :-)

Really, it's not that hard. Go to places where there are single men, and dress and act in a way that suggests you might be available. Remember to smile, and act confident. Talk to them, especially any you thing are cute/nice/interesting/well-hung/whatever you're looking for.

Oh yeah, and "Be yourself" --after all you really do want a boyfriend, right?

2006-07-18 20:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0 0

I am sorry you are lonely, but having a boyfriend is not what it is cracked up to be. Get involved in other activities as there will be someone waiting around the corner for you , when you least expect it.!!! Just be you!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-18 20:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0 0

well I always get the guy by starting up a conversation with him. Find his interests and try to relate. While you are talking to him stare him in the eyes in a flirty kind of way. Usually the guy with make the next move if he is interested.

Good luck

2006-07-18 20:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0 0

Yeah I know it's harder than it looks. Just make yourself available, go on a couple dates. You'll be sure to find some one. Just don't let anyone waste your time. After all thats what life is made up of- time. Good luck!

2006-07-18 20:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by tbrownhaha 2 · 0 0

Confidence really goes a long way with guys.

Honestly though, the trick is to start enjoying your single life and deciding that you don't need a boyfriend to be happy...then you'll meet Mr. Right...it happened to me...arggg! LOL

But seriously-you need to be happy and confident and satisfied with yourself without a boyfriend...it may not guarantee you a boyfriend...but it will make you be happier.

*hugs* loneliness sucks!

2006-07-18 20:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by redfernkitty 3 · 0 0

Be a little flirty, Show some cleavage. Dont be too sluty though! And be yourself.

2006-07-18 20:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Celetatious 1 · 0 0

U HAVE 2 BE YOURSELF AND MEET GUYS U WILL KNOW IF U FOUND THE RIGHT ONE IT TAKES TIME....IF U GET THE WRONG GUY THEN U WILL BE TIRED OF GUYS SO U WILL MEET ON THAT U REALLY LIKE VERY SOON..............

2006-07-18 20:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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