Ok, me and my girlfriend of 2 yrs were living together. She went away to Canada for 3 months and during that period we decided it would be best to break up. I went on a few different dates, but remained completely faithful because I was fearful that if we got together again it would hurt her. She met a guy once, then lied to me and went on a trip 5 states away to see him. Then after crying it was stupid to me stayed with him in a NYC she swears she didnt sleep with him. After several months and a moving out we have gotten back together and through some teasing it, unfortunately came to my attention that her "nothing happened" was actually something that involved his member. I worried she is lying to me and atually slept with this guy after only knowing him a short period. It changes the way I percieved her and I am having trouble trusting her. I don't know what to do, I love her, but am having a very hard time trusting her.
2006-07-18 13:36:23 · 6 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like you already know the answer. You'v egot to realise though that it's time to move on as you had broken up. Put it on a shelf n leave it there. Stop spending so much time thinkin about her with this guy and use it to show her how much you love her and want to make her happy.
2006-07-18 13:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by dickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should stay with her because u seem to doubt her trust and that is not good in a relationship, but if u really love her then u would stay with her but keep an eye out for her to be on the safe side
2006-07-18 13:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have some type of trust if your still with her,I'm sure you can do better. you don't have to put up with wondering about who she is screwing around with. and you mutually agreed to take a break when she went on that trip. kick her to the curb.
2006-07-18 13:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by HONEY*B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust her, then you can't! & nothing anybody else says is going to overshadow the doubts you have.
I hope you make the best choice for YOU in the long run.
2006-07-18 13:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust anything that can bleed for 5 days & not die.LOL
2006-07-18 13:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you were broken up then it is none of your business. She probably don't tell you for that reason.
2006-07-18 14:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Desiree S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋