Who believes in spanking a child when they've done something wrong?

Question

I do, because it teaches them that they have to respect authority, who the main authoritative figures are in their life, it teaches them right from wrong so they'll know what to do and what not to do. I've also found that it helps tame those wild, rebellious children. I've always heard that there is a direct line from the butt to the brain in a figurative sense, and it won't kill them either. It will keep them out of prison or winding up dead someday because of the healthy respect they learn. I've seen that they also love you more for caring enough to dscipline them in the long-run.

That was supposed to be discipline, lol.

Yes, I agree, it will keep them out of a lot of trouble later in life. If they learn to respect you now they'll learn to respect other authoritative figures later in life. In a subconscious Freudian way I think it lets them know you love them.

Yes, there is a BIG differnce in spanking and beating or abuse.

Answer 1

I agree. I spank my son when he doesn't listen or does something wrong, but then I go to him and explain why he's been spanked.

Answer 2

I think spanking on the butt or back of the legs is fine. Not until they're a certain age though. I've actually read questions on here where people mention spanking their 9 month old baby. WHAT?! When a baby is that young, they have no idea why mommy or daddy is hitting them. All they know is that it hurts, so they scream and cry even louder. I think about 3 is a good age to spank, if you want. By then, they're usually talking well and understanding things completely, and you can reason with them WHY they're getting spanked.

Answer 3

I believe in it. Somewhere in the bible it says "spare the rod, spoil the child" I do not believe in beating them, or hitting them anywhere other than on the butt, and it should never be done when the parents are angry. I usually only spank my son when he has done something that can hurt himself or somebody else, like playing with a socket or throwing things, you know, things like that. But always make sure you are calm, because sometimes people can get out of hand. For little things he does wrong, like not cleaning up his toys or playing with things he isn't supposed to, like food or toothpaste, he goes in the corner, and doesn't come out until he has finished crying and is ready to TALK about what he did wrong and why it was wrong. :) This seems to be as effective as spanking, so in my opinion spanking is OK, but only when the child really needs it. There are always alternatives. Just depends on the individuals and the situation.

Answer 4

I trust you, as long as a results of fact the baby is spanked in a in charge way, it somewhat is a time-commemorated custom that seems to have fallen out of fashion only those days. there's a line which could rather be crossed between spanking and abuse. The spanking could be achieved whilst the determine isn't indignant or disillusioned and the baby needs to have an evidence of what they did incorrect to warrant the spanking. of direction, that still relies upon on the age of the age and no count if he/she is able to understanding the reason. i think a small baby who's misbehaving after verbal self-discipline, can get carry of a speedy swat on the hinnie without drastic repercussions to the pysche. I and all my brothers and sisters have been spanked as have been (and are) all nieces and nephews, and all are doing completely properly, bodily and mentally.

Answer 5

This is true. I agree with discipline. Although not always spanking. I think every child is different and what works with one may not work for another.
When I was growing up, I got my share of spankings. Although I can usually get my daughter to mind just by scolding her.
As far as I know, kids are INDIVIDUALS.
I also know I am not getting 10 pts for this answer but YOU put the question out there...

Answer 6

I am a firm believer of spanking a child.These children today are very disrespectful these days.I think if we went back to the old days everybody in the hood spanked that butt if we were out of place.Then they took you to the parents.It was nothing like it is today.These kids today have the law backing them up.I tell mine that if they want to call the police then they need to pack their bags cause I refuse to have a disrespectful and bad child. Your children are a reflection of you.So yes a good spanking never hurt anyone.It's those don't get a spanking ,we need to worry about.

Answer 7

keep them out of prison? teach them to respect you? What is that????
I believe there are other methods of disaplining a child other than (hitting them) A spanking is just that...hitting. They very soon the word no, especially if you set them in a chair when they are very young. Their feeling get hurt when you do this and they soon learn to please you and act correctly. A child should be taught authority & respect by showing them authority and respect. Don't ever"hit" or "spank" a child. Trist me they won't end up in prison or on the streets. All that teaches them is to hit back. It shows a young child that to get their way they should hit. I have raised 4 kids and never spanked any of them. They are have never seen juvey hall, prison nor are they on the streets. All 4 of them are wonderful and they RESPECT ME

Answer 8

I have never been a big believer in corporal punishment.

True, there are many children who respond well to this discipline, but many more do not. Children learn respect from their parents. Children learn how to behave, from their parents. Most children can learn right from wrong without being hit....Yes, HIT. Call it what you will, but you are still hitting your child when you spank. You should videotape yourself when you are doing this, with sound....so you can see your face while performing this act.

I pray for you all.

Answer 9

I don't believe in it. My dad used to spank us, and he said he always felt guilty afterwards. Anyway, he had a temper control problem, and most of the spankings were ill-deserved. He realizes that now, though, thank goodness. And he's working on his temper.

Anyway, the reason I don't believe in it is because spanking is violent and hurtful, and if we want to lead by example, we must show our children that violence should not be acceptable in any situation (except self-defense, of course).

Answer 10

I have never spanked my children, and they are quite well behaved. I don't believe there is any evidence that spanking does children any good at all. I think spanking just makes children resentful, and I think parents just do it because they are frustrated and don't have the patience to deal with their children's bad behavior. And I think if it works, it only works temporarily.

I told my wife that if she hit our children, then I have just as much right to hit her. And I would never hit her either. Once she got mad and hit one of the kids and I would not speak to her until she promised never to do it again.

Answer 11

I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine... graduating from college soon, getting ready to get married in the next couple years. I think spanking is fine if and when it's required.