I met a guy from the internet in person & we got a long great. He travelled 2 hours to see me. We messaged eachother nearly every day after that night. Last Sunday he asked me if I'd like to go on a date with him. I travelled 2 hours this time to see him & I was stood up. He didn't message me till that night. And he didn't tell me what happened...
Anyway... I gave him a second chance & he came down here last Thursday. We spent 12 hours together. He gave me the money back for the train tickets I wasted. He bought me lunch. He bought the tickets to the movies & he bought me drinks at the concert we went to. Before the main band came on, we left & went to the car & I had my first real kiss. And that became a make out session for an hour & a half, haha. Then he had to leave to work at 5am.
I've been thinking about that night a lot. He seemed to really care about me and smiled at me a lot. I've been wondering if all he wanted was sex even though he didn't try.
2006-07-18 12:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've known him since the end of May. I'm 18 & he's 22. He says I'm a great woman & wants to date me. He's very open. He's told me a lot about his life & family. I asked him after our first meeting if he was just in it for the sex & he said no. He also told me that he'd met 4 other women off the net & met them. At that moment he was still talking to 2 of them & he'd had sex with 1 of them. I'm afraid to ask about them again. We got pretty close on the first date. I told him a while ago that I know longer want to be a virgin after my 19th in November & he said he'd help me out, haha. He said he could see me in his future as a girlfriend & I really like him. He never puts me down & he's a great kisser.
2006-07-18 12:51:51 · update #1
When he messaged me I told him I just wanna know why u didnt show. The first thing he said was "cause i'm a prick" and I said that didn't answer it & then he said "I went to the doctors then home but thats no excuse" he said sorry a few times & when he was holding me in the car he told me my friend had threatened him that if he broke my heart, he'd be dead. He said he'd never make that mistake again. I believe him, but I still wanna know why he didn't show on the Sunday.
He always messages me, even if he's working & I used to tell him he's supposed to be working, I'll talk to u later, but he always keeps messaging me.
He says he'll always have time for me.
He's travelling 2 hours by train for me. Thats gotta mean something right?
2006-07-18 12:52:08 · update #2
I've got a weird feeling that he's seeing someone else where he is, but why is he still travelling 2 hours for me? And he tells me he wants love & companionship. He said he's been single for 4 years, but thats a bit hard to imagine. Though he's told me he's had a few 1 nighters. I really like him & I said I'll have to find his faults for myself. He's a real loving guy & seems to care about his family & me a lot. Why would anyone be so cruel to do that.
2006-07-18 12:58:46 · update #3
That was pretty much the entire story. The more info, the more advice, I was hoping for :P Any help is wanted!
2006-07-18 13:00:17 · update #4
Right. But... um... if he is talking to other girls are you sure he wasn't with one when he was supposed to be seeing you. I mean, if he still talks to them and has had sex with 1 of them.... well it seems kinda well fishy, thats all I am saying. This guy seems like a real smooth talker, but I don't know him. If you ask me it kinda SEEMS like he is in it just for the sex. But mabey not, I mean he did ride 2 hours on a train, and that can't be cheap. I would just kinda be cautious around him. THat is all I am sayin. I'm sorry if this was not what you wanted to hear.
2006-07-18 12:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could help...but when it comes to guys I'm a train wreck. I tend to meet a really great, start hanging out/talking on the phone, go on a date or two but I don't know I just get freaked or something a tend to drop off the face of the Earth. I guess I'm just so scared of getting hurt that I'm not willing to put myself out there. Then I end up regretting the would-be relationship go. Just don't drop off the face of the earth, like I tend to do, and do what you feel is right. If you really like the guy, I say give him a chance and see where it goes. You don't want to end up regretting not doing anything about it later.
2006-07-18 19:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by lemonlimeemt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him and see if he sticks around after that. That's really the only way to find out.
2006-07-18 19:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was incredibly long and i dont know what to tell you. since your still a virgin i wouldnt recomend having sex with him to see if he sticks around. but if you want him to be your first then go for it. :D
2006-07-18 20:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by draxxus89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. you really like him.. and i think he really likes you.. i mean if he is going on a train just to see you .. then he really likes you!! alot..!! but your fine dont worry abotu that night he wasnt there.. he said he will never do that again.. just trust him..
2006-07-18 20:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think hes working you, hold out longer see what happens, if he cant wait then hes not that great
2006-07-18 19:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by veryverystudly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a complete story or what?
2006-07-18 19:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. I don't know what to say to this
2006-07-18 19:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by TomFelton's a god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW THIS LOOOONG..
ANYWAYS WHATEVR YOU THINK IS RIGHT DO IT.
2006-07-18 19:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋