I have been dating a very succesful baseball player in nyc?

Question

he's rich, famous, handsome, and a playboy. meaning he gets more women than any other guy I have ever met in my life.
We have been off and on for about 3 years. But I have never gotten serious due to the fact that I like my privacy, and well, I'm just very low key, I'm a home gal, I'm young, I know, but my lifestyle is completely different to his.
Well, about 2 months ago, I decided I would end our "relationship" to pursue love. I have a bf now, and never answer he's calls, because I honestly want to move on. In my head, I know it would never work out between bplayer and me. Last nite he called, I finally answered, and he asked me to marry him, because he's in love with me. To clarify things, I thought I was just his long term bootycall-bestgalfriend, since he always made sure to put a wall between us, so he wouldn't get too close. Now that I have a bf, he wants to marry me..when he can have any woman. he showed up with flowers ealier at my job. Is he actually serious? confuesed here!

Answer 1

What a fairy tale story! I had the opportunity to date a yankee myself, it was fun, we still talk. I have a bf now, we have been together for almost 4 years, but I always talk to my yankee, I know he loves me, and I guess somewhere deep inside my heart, so do I. I am pursuing a career in the sports world, so I know I will be seeing more of him. Dating my yankee, taught me lots about my future career, and most importantly more about him. These man are rich, famous, blah blah blah, but they are still man who need love , and they have a hard time finding it, because everyone else is so focused on what they do for a living, and the spotllight. I am sure this man loves you, and the only reason he pushed you away was to assure himself you weren't after what other woman are after.
I hope it all works out for you! Keep me posted!, perhaps we will meet someday:)

Answer 2

only time will tell. do you love this guy or do you love your boyfriend? BB player or not it may be a case of the I want what I cant have but when he has it he'll scadattle again. Just play it cool dont to anything rash and see how the story plays out. Be true to your heart and not the size of his wallet. Stardom can vanish in the blink of an eye, will he still want you then good luck

Answer 3

Marry baseball player dude. He is serious.When you broke it off with him, you proved to him that you were not just into him because of his money or fame. And like most men, he didn't realize what he had until it was gone.
Go live low keyed and private on a yacht, moored in some nice secluded harbor while he does his thing.
Congratulations.

Answer 4

Stay with the BF. Especially, if you like BF and he is good to you. Stay with BF if he doesn't cheat on you or beat you up and treats you right.

BP is just interested because he doesn't have you, someone else does. You always want what you can't have. Besides, he has a history of cheating. Do you want a life where your always wondering if BP is true to you???

Good Luck.

Answer 5

I guess you need to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you do, why not be with him? Just make clear boundaries about your privacy and you want him to respect that. If he loves you, of course he would be OK with that. You should think about your b/f, too and where are things going with him. Do you see anything "long term" with him, or too soon to tell? If you are curious to see where it goes with your b/f, then you should tell the other guy to forget it, because if you wanted to be with him and marry him, then he would be all you are thinking about!

Answer 6

Must be love... But think, you'll need to live his life once you make any commitment...Dont do anything unless your willing to do it with all your heart,you'll only end up heart..Unless your money hungry better be carefull, all that money and fame dont buy happyness or love... Good Luck. your friend here in tennessee ROB

Answer 7

Marry the BP the worst that can happen is you get divorced. This is once in a life time.

Answer 8

ask him to take it slow.
and to not propose over the phone or outta jealous.
sometimes men like women they cant have.
you had a boyfriend so maybe he juss wanted you for himself.
hey maybe thats not a bad thing.
let your heart decide.

Answer 9

Be flattered, but you already said that you know it wouldn't work out. Explain that to him so that neither of you waste each other's time.

Answer 10

wow!!! dont tell me hes from the mets?!?! anyways tell him that you will think about it.. then watch him if he works for it!! good luck!!