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My son is going to middle school..It seems like the elememtary school is still in him..I don't want to be nervous, but this is a new step for both of us..

2006-07-18 12:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by zkay89me 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Grade-Schooler

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I'm a sixth grade teacher...and I would hug you if I could. Middle school is going to be harder on you than it will him.

I would say there's an 85% chance that his brains are going to fall out in the next two years. The hormone fairy is going to visit...he will be sullen and argumentative. He might have problems remembering to turn in his homework, even if it's complete.

Hang in there...it's only temporary. Your wonderful kid will be back by the first year of high school or so. Your son's teachers should be your best friends this year...call them with questions. We would rather have a rotten kid with an involved parent than a star pupil with a parent who doesn't care.

It's not really his fault...it's mostly physiological rather than psychological. Just hang in there with him. Stay firm on issues like grades and drugs, and don't worry so much about hair and clothes.

6th grade is an exciting year....it's the transition between childhood and teenager-hood. There's new skills to learn, new responsibilities, and new fun to be had. I wouldn't teach another age group....

Good luck to you!!!

2006-07-18 17:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa S 2 · 3 0

I have taught 6th grade middle school for 14 years. I will just tell ya, the kids do fine --it is the parents who panic!! Sure they are going to seem and possibly be nervous, but once they get there, they are fine. I would suggest to do the orientation during the summer so he will feel comfortable in the school and already know how to open his locker. Believe it or not, that is most 6th graders biggest fears is opening their lockers or getting lost in the school. If there is not an orientation, buy a combination lock so he can practice the right left right thing!!! Relax mom, and realize you are not alone in this!!! He WILL be fine and so will you!!

2006-07-18 16:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by jiffypop88 4 · 0 0

Unless he is changing schools, there won't be much of a difference to him. Children don't start to show signs of greater maturity until they move from 6th to 7th grade. (even my 8th graders still have elementary traits in them..) The teachers will definitely begin to require more responsibility and accountability from the student and parent. The work is still a work in progress - the expectations are the same in terms of what the teachers, schools, etc. need from the student. Students tend to become more outgoing and defining their friends and the kinds of people they want to be with. (comfort zones established) From a teacher's perspective - pay close attention to your child's homework assignments and help him get organized. Teachers will be 'letting go' a little more and expecting the student to be more responsible. Some of them have a hard time with organizing their agendas, assignments, books, lockers, time, etc. This can cause much confusion and crazy around the house. Check his backpack nightly for school memos, notes and letters. Talk with him about his concerns. He will become frustrated. (especially if he is passing classes this year - some schools still maintain block schedule at this age) Encourage him to read everyday! At least 30 minutes. Participate, make sure you know he understands. Watch for any signs of stresses. They can start to occur in 6th grade. Hopefully, he will have sports, arts, etc to balance out his day and his 6th grade year will be splendid!

2006-07-18 13:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0 0

i'm an 8th grader and that i do no longer hate six graders yet indexed right here are some attainable motives on why your 8th graders do: - they are jealous because you adult men are nonetheless youthful and you'd be able to stay your lives freely without as plenty homework. - possibly its because of the fact some 6th graders they understand act like they are the final (in different words appearing suitable s***) - possibly its because of the age distinction like how brothers and sisters act jointly. I cant think of of the different motives yet that. i'm hoping you may resolve this concern. If no longer carry your heads intense and ignore concerning to the 8th graders. sooner or later you would be interior the 8th grade and we could wish which you do no longer try this to the 6th graders. ^^ sturdy success.

2016-11-02 07:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by sikorski 4 · 0 0

Depends on the school. My middle school had rotating classes like a high school, which was very new to me. we also had lockers for the first time, homeroom, and electives. It was very exciting. I also remember everyone suddlenly having boyfriends and girlfriends. Hormones are raging in 6th grade! It is an awkward age, but I think it is easier on boys than on girls. don't worry, your son still has a lot of little boy left in him!

2006-07-18 13:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by kwinkle 3 · 0 0

Pure hell. Seriously, middle school are the worst years of your life. Bad food, getting up earlier, lots more work, lockers, switching classes, meaner teachers, the whole 9 yards. And the kids are MEAN.

2006-07-18 14:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My daughter just finished 6th grade. It was not only a new school but all new people because we moved. She adjusted fine. Your son will see all the kids from his old school there and be fine.

my daughters elementary school did class rotation starting in 4th grade to prepare them.

2006-07-19 00:26:02 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0 0

It stared tough, but it was really fun once I got situated. I would encourage your son to not have a girlfriend. Things get tricky in that category.

2006-07-18 15:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by danceflamingo512 1 · 0 0

its really no different it is just a lot easier and you rotate classes the sixth grade teachers are easier on you than almost any elementary teachers

2006-07-18 18:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by errica2012 2 · 0 0

Middle school will be harder for him.

2006-07-18 15:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0 0

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