i have been lying all of the time? and it is killing me and affecting my mood......what should i do? I am not happy anymore
2006-07-18 12:26:48 · 11 answers · asked by DivaStar 5 in Health ➔ Other - Health
At the root of lying is fear, particularly the fear of man. Specifically, at least on an unconscious level, fear of being killed by your fellow man. Eliminate the fear of man, and your desire to fabricate (or make things up) will follow.
That is an easy thing to say, but how do you become truly unafraid? For me, it was becoming a Christian. I just didn't worry about dying anymore, and that is really the worst thing that can happen to you at the hands of your fellow man.
These days, I just tell the truth, painful as it might be, and go on with my life. I may not win a lot of popularity contests, but people consistently seek me out when they want to hear the truth.
Would you consider letting Jesus become your Lord and trading in your fear of man in exchange for the love of God?
Thank you for your courage to ask this very tough question. I hope you find the answer you are looking for. God bless you!
2006-07-18 12:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only continue to make matters worse and worse, always having to cover one lie with another, forgetting which story you told who? Honesty is a much more peaceful place to come from. But you already know this. Learn to respect yourself and those who love you or learn to live a life of loneliness and misery. You know what to do. If not, talk to someone you trust and be absolutely truthful about this.
2006-07-18 12:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gregg J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of ways to stop lying !
I'm going to a friends to do Homework ! We all know what you do ! (Play video games or get drunk with your buddies)
Honestly there are plenty of lies like the one I mentioned ! I think to stop the habit is easy if you are honest to yourself and to others ! By the way are you serious that it is making you unhappy !!!!!!!
2006-07-18 12:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling the truth tell someone to slap you every time you lie someone that knows when you are lying or someone you tell when you are lying.
2006-07-18 13:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by $~*DAT DAMN CHICK*~$ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a self-esteem problem. I used to be a compulsive liar and my therapist helped me raise my self-esteem. People lie about themselves to make it seem like they lead more interesting lives.
2006-07-18 12:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nelson K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have someone punch or slap you out of nowhere when they know your lying.
2006-07-18 12:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by PhantumBG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop lying, and you will feel better. or talgk to Priest if you go to church
2006-07-18 12:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by daddy's gurl 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should see a psychologist., to find out why you do it, and then you they might be able to help you stop
2006-07-18 12:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by crazylarry88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u not the only one. i kno this girl named tykasia she lies all the time. she said she had twin sister when she didn't.
2006-07-18 12:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by BoRiQuA_MaMi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THE TRUTH AND WHEN EVER YOU WANT TO LYE JUST REMEMBER HOW THAT MAKES YOU FEEL
2006-07-18 12:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋