my man has this rudeness about him. his tone of voice is always on fight mode. But he says take it or leave it or I don't know what to say if you don't like it....i'm always like this and you aren't the only one. anything i ask, he's on this fight mode tone. almost as if you get intimidated to even ask how his day was. what do you think? please see other questions for a background
2006-07-18 12:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand the tone thing. I don't know how long you have been with him, but if his attitude is take it or leave it....I would leave it. Why should you have to walk around prepared for boxing when he opens his mouth. If you've been with him for a while, then you kind of put that on yourself. Don't expect him to change.
2006-07-18 12:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him in a rude tone and soon he will change his. My boyfriend sometimes gets in those moods with me and I used to take it, but then I started going off on him as much because I got tired of it. I told him when we first got together that I hated fighting (arguing in relationships) because that doesn't solve anything. So when he would get mad I'd apologize and try to calm him down and take his crap, now I've learned the only way to get him to calm down and not having him yell all the time is for me to yell back or get smart back.
2006-07-18 19:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think the b**** is cheating on you.Second of all don't ever let a man yell at you like some little dog.Are you giving him sex because if your not then thats the problem hun.That makes a man have an attitude, and he's probably saying: Why do i have to go get her what she wants but she won't give me what i want. Give him some good head, he'll forget about everything then.Try it and see.
2006-07-18 19:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...dat is drama dat you don't need in ur life. Obviously he's hiding something. And if he can't treat you wit respect than you need to drop dat fool. Woman are to be treated like queens not like trash. So get out while you can.
2006-07-18 19:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Traviesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he sounds abusive then he probably is. dont get yourself stuck into a situation that you can't get yourself out of. It could become fatal!
2006-07-18 19:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Twin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in his *** and tell him to get a grip!
2006-07-18 19:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋