2006-07-18 11:58:53 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes because sex just screws up people's lives if they do it without actually loving eachother.. and marriage is the only sure way of being truely committed to someone.
2006-07-18 12:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely want to drive it around the block a few times before signing on the dotted line. Just imagine finding out on your honeymoon night that your lover is the pits in bed! Game Over!!
I don't give a damn what any religions believe ... a good marriage should include satisfying sex - and I don't plan on entering into any contract without prior knowledge on the quality of the product.
2006-07-18 12:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Empire Jetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage.
reason 1:
people don't die at age 25 anymore... longer lifespans... they don't need to get married and start having kids at twelve anymore like they used to do way back in the day
reason 2:
a healthy sex life contributes to a healthy marriage... how else are you going to know if you are sexually compatible with a person if you don't experience it first. some people have weird sexual habit, some people dont like it much, and some people like it too much... bottom line is if you don't know your partners sexual identity or your own for that matter, you can't possibly know if a marriage will work out.
2006-07-18 12:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by steady as we go 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm waiting till marriage.. I'm 21..it's really hard to do, but it will be worth it in the end : ) and those people who say "try it before you buy it because your spouse could be bad in bed"...well let me tell you... if you have never had sex, you have nothing to compare it to, so it will be good to you,
and plus if you marry some one for the right reason ( which i think if you are the kinda person to wait, you probably are) then you will be sooo in love with them, and it will be about you wanting to connect spiritually,and physically with him, making the two of you more intimate; it won't just be about getting out the lust.
so i think that "try it before you buy it" is an excuse for people who have no self control and/or will power...
2006-07-18 12:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Carly j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That line is used just for "Population Control" purposes. Not because "they" actually have a care for what you believe, think or the way you live. Sex is for everyone above the legal age "18", with the understanding of the consequences if things go as not intended.
2006-07-18 12:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by lopez76g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i belive you should have sex before marriage that way you can test the merchandise before ya buy it, what if your b/f or g/f really sucks in the sack, what are you going to do live without the experiance of a orgasm, i mean its just a matter of life, if your not satisfied then your gonna cheat!
AsH
2006-07-18 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I want to wait and give myself to my husband. The greatest gift you can give anybody is yourself.
Sorry, read the question wrong the first time. I thought it said, do you believe in sex before marriage? I wasn't wearing my glasses...
2006-07-18 12:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by i_luv_the_irish23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you truly love anyone, and you feel that you need to be physically initmate, then go on ahead! But just be care since some can confuse it with other things. Make sure that your ready to do so before marriage.
2006-07-18 12:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partly. I don't want to get married but I might want to have sex when i'm older. So i think it okay to have sex before marriage as long as your 20 or above.
2006-07-18 12:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by pantherchick0729 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never purchase a car I hadn't test driven. So no, I think it's foolish to go into marriage never having had sex. What if you're mate and you are not compatible in this area? Bad idea.
2006-07-18 12:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋