ok, its a long story, i went out with this guy from my new school 4 about 2 weeks but i didnt tell my best freind(guy) and i wanted to but my mother said no because guys get jealous and it would wreck our friendship because me and him dated a long time, so anyways i didnt tell him and me and that guy are way over but my ex/ best friend just found out and hes sorta mad and sorta not. now i dont know if i can gain his trust back again, i wasnt trying to lie i was just trying to protect our friendship, how can i make it up to him?? HELP!!!
2006-07-18 11:38:59 · 25 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for those of you, yea hes my ex but b4 that he was my best friend, then dated then stayed best friends. and we've never lied to each other so i mean this is super hard idk what to say or what b/c i know i should have told him and i didnt but i already messed up and idk if its too late, did i loose him??
2006-07-18 11:47:10 · update #1
Jump on him and let him nail you.
2006-07-18 11:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As the old saying goes....Honesty is the best policy. Also, I would stay away from anyone's suggestions of doing something because "guys", "girls", "friends", or any other group you can mention...not every member of any of those groups would react to a situation in the same manner.
2006-07-18 11:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Syrann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really your friend, he wont let something like that get in the way of ur friendship. I mean you have to move on some time. Just b/c he does not like it does not mean you cant date him. Ur just friends so he should inderstand!
2006-07-18 11:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by krystallynn1205 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to....he's your ex...he has no right or say in what you do or who you date...that's why you shouldn't be friends with your ex's...there's always going to be some emotional attachment there...and i guarantee that even if you told him from the beginning about this other guy, he would still have been upset about it....you owe him no explanation or apologies.
2006-07-18 11:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is the best tool if your best friend knows this. Explain everything to make him understand. I'm sure you did that with no intention to hurt him. It's a matter that we're enjoying life, isn't it?
2006-07-18 11:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple! All you have to do is enter the witness protection program! They will give you a fake alias and the guys will never know what happened to you. I did it after I left the mafia.
2006-07-18 11:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a night out and show him that you want his friendship in your life. If your new BF doesn't understand then he is more than likely not right for you anyway.
2006-07-18 11:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you wanted to but you decided to follow your mom's advice (and tell him what she said) Tell him that you're really sorry and you werent lying to him to hurt him, you were lying because you were afraid of losing him as a friend. Then tell him that you'll be honest with him from now on no matter what, and actually be honest with him from now on.
2006-07-18 11:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if he is just a "friend" he shouldn't be getting jealous. And second, what trust do you need to gain back, you haven't done anything wrong!!!!
2006-07-18 11:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now wait i second!!!!
Your single?
Your hot?
Why must you tell them anything. It's none of there business anyway.
Take control and don't stress on it.
This just says that they are very jealous and maybe even wish they could go out with you as well! ((hint hint))
2006-07-18 11:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Computer geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your best friend, then you should have told him to begin with. Explain it to him like you did to us. You just wanted to protect your freindship.
2006-07-18 11:42:02 · answer #11 · answered by pamela_d_99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋