2006-07-18 11:25:12 · 17 answers · asked by mindy7928 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they slept together. don't trust him.
2006-07-18 11:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't and you certainly don't marry him. Why would you be looking so hard to find a way to trust someone who proved he isn't worthy of it? and your friend certainly isn't your friend. You don't expect too much from people do you? These people have both shown you their true character, when that happens you MUST believe it, if you continue relationships with either of them you earned whatever you get in the future. Don't get lost in the fantasy of a happy marriage and a wedding to the point where you deny the reality of who you are marrying. This isn't a fairy tale this is real life and if you go ahead and marry this person you will certainly regret it. Not to mention that you teach people how to treat you, if you continue your relationship with these folks what have you taught them? That they can do something this hurtful to you and you'll stick around and take it, thats what. And yoo hooo if they weren't sleeping together what exactly were they doing? and what was their reason for being together, thats even worse actually, they were willing to risk their relationships with you to what? have dinner? can you say sucker? they are lying, they had no reason to be together besides having sex.
2006-07-18 11:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him at all! Unless they were sneaking around planning a surprise engagement party for you. Any other sneaking is totally unacceptable.
2006-07-18 11:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own guestion by asking HOW can you trusts him. You CAN'T trust him.
Bottom line is that he has already betrayed you.
If this is happening now........can you imagine the nightmares to come in the future.
What part of betrayal don't you understand?
You are worth a better guy.
2006-07-18 11:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of sneaking? Making a surprise birthday party for you? I don't understand. If you don't trust him, you probably shouldn't.
2006-07-18 11:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know they didn't sleep together? there is no need to sneak around if you're not doing anything wrong. i would get rid of both of them. you obviously can't trust either one of them.
2006-07-18 11:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What arr you guys like 18?? Shouldn't you be old enough to confront him and get it settled out in the open. If he's keeping things from you BEFORE the marriage, what do you think a ceremony is gonna do CURE him? Get real girl, I don't think he sounds ready to be nobody's husband.
2006-07-18 11:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make sure he doesnt do it behind ur back, get ur friend and ur fiance and engage in treesome that way you know hes every move. LOL
2006-07-18 11:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were not doing something that was wrong, why were they sneaking around? Go with what is in your gut... it is called women's intuition for a reason.
2006-07-18 11:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant there's too much to handle you cant trust a cheater would cheat if you let him one time you let him do it a dozen times
2006-07-18 11:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by bdjones_78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they are going to tell you if they really did sleep together. Ditch his ***, once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-07-18 11:30:01 · answer #11 · answered by pieceomind4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋