2006-07-18 11:22:47 · 24 answers · asked by purple_dogs_bed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait till I grow up and not scared to call someone. It's not really to scary at all. You just pick up the phone, dial the number, talk when they answer. See not scary at all and real easy to do too.
2006-07-18 11:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice what you will say. Some people work well under pressure and others dont...so if you are one that does not try to ease the pressure, practice. Think of a short thing to ask and then see if the conversation continues. A lot of guys wont pick up and start talking, so we girls usually jump in and do that....but it is hard when you are shy, like someone a lot and its the beginning. Try to practice with holding the phone to your ear when it is off. Just say "hey, whats up just wanted to see what you are up to?" Hows your week been so far? He may give short answers...then you can just say hey what do you think about___________ a show or movie, or something that you would be able to say something about that he might like. Hope it goes well!
2006-07-18 18:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally..i think it's not a big deal...just dial and see what happens. if he's a nice guy he'll make conversation and will be genuinely interested in doing something with you.
BUT sorry to say, most of the time..if the guy likes you...HE'll call you! yup. that's just how it works. no need for us to call becasue then it seems like we are over eager and throwing ourselves on them. (and guys take this as oh i'm gonna get laid then) so i would suggest not calling. unless your already dating and have established boyfriend/girlfriend statues.
2006-07-18 19:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by reemsh_2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have felt that way before too....but I got over the being nervous part and just called anyway. It has turned out good each time. So, just look at the good possibilities and call him.
2006-07-18 18:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have an alternative reason for calling and work your way into the real reason; that way if things aren't going well he'll never know why you really called.
My life if full of missed opportunities- don't let it happen to you...
2006-07-18 18:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by northwest.poet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay well if your really scared then hype your self up and get excited to do it, and if you really dont know what to say you can wrtie down some things you might want to say in case you freak out lol... goodluck
2006-07-18 18:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by LaurenLovesYou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call. Worst that will happen is you get a hang up. Beats being hung up on a guy, and not knowing where you stand.
2006-07-18 18:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by parkmaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
build up courage, then call him! and it's a really good thing to hold the phone in your hand and walk around doing other things then push dial and you wont feel so wierd calling him becuase your mind wont be totally on him....
2006-07-18 18:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u have the chance just do it don't blow it. when u miss it u will me like god why didn't i do it. then u will be so terrifed of what u have done i am telling u. just do it . there's nothing to be sacred of what u do really it isn't so be brave. i know is hard but u could do it i know u can. same thing happened to me. but it came all right.
2006-07-18 18:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Devily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him!!!! Just b cool and say wathcha up 2!! Mayb have a party at your house and invite him over!!!!
2006-07-18 18:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋