I am very attractive but am scared of sex does it hurt feel good
Some one help me
2006-07-18 11:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Mookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it is not a bad thing, it is very admirable, not too many people can hold on to their gift. you should not be ashamed of what you have. Sex is nothing to be scared of, when you find the right person it will be enjoyable, but don't rush into anything. Remember your virginity is a gift and once you lose it it's gone, so cherish it while you can.
2006-07-18 11:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin @18 is a great thing, If you are afraid DONT DO IT. It is not that important, whoever told you that it is bad ask them why??? You are giving up your body to someone that may not be there for you and will use you after that. Make sure YOUR ready not the world. Nothing but heartache and pain follows. I am 19 i lost my virginity at the age of 15 and i regret it to this day, eventhough i am active with my boyfriend sometimes i do want to stop and wait until i am married, but it's addictive. JUST WAIT, IT'S THE BEST THING TO DO
2006-07-18 11:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by lovesick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats on being a virgin!...now in days that's hard to find.Girls are giving it up at 15 or less?!(crazy!).....anywho.....i think it's a very good thing that you have been saving yourself.It's NOT a bad thing!don't listen to other ppl, that's just gonna mess with your head and you'll end up doing something you're gonna regret.
......take that step until YOU feel you're ready.It's natural to be scared at first, but that's gonna go away when you chose to go through with it.Simply because you're going to want it.So relax....you're still young.Enjoy your youth.Everything will come at it's time.
p.s.
it's gonna hurt at first, but you won't care if it's what you really want.And gradually it will start to feel better and better.
2006-07-18 11:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not bad..actually you are protecting yourself from a ton of harm. There is alot of things that come with sex, emotional things, physical things, and there is also a spiritual side, just take your time and when you are ready, use protection and try to relax.
Good Luck!!
2006-07-18 11:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by brooklynbornson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can fool urself but nothing hides under the sun...I've had u a couple of times and Smyth has had u too, so what makes u a virgin.....guess ur a born-again DOG.
2006-07-18 11:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by adriano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a bad thing. it is a very good thing. when u get married u wear a white dress right?.......well the white dress symbolizes purity, as in not having sex before marriage. and the whole piont of sex is to give it to the right man.
2006-07-18 11:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by marissamutilated™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO !! It snot a BAD thing, stay a virgin until you get married and do not listen to those morons who say other wise.
2006-07-18 11:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay dont be scared om 37 and im still a virgin yes its true
2006-07-18 11:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a bad thing. Take your time so your first time won't ever be ruined by some jerk and pressure.
2006-07-18 11:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by BobforNow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not bad, people older then you are still virgins
2006-07-18 11:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋