cuz you're afraid of what they think about you. just don't worry about it. there's this quote that i completely love (i heard it on dr. phil. lol) "you'd care alot less what people think about you if you knew how seldom they did."
2006-07-18 11:16:13
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answered by gertie 4
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Don't worry about it. It will pas after a year or two, its completely normal. I used to be so afraid to talk to girls I liked that whatever I said came out backwards. Don't worry you're just afraid of saying the wrong thing and embracing yourself. Once you will pass this fear everything will be OK
2006-07-18 18:17:54
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answered by Faust 5
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Mayby ur just shy it might take some time, get to know a girl u think u might like and be her friend then when the time is right if u like her enolf ask her out or just have a friend talk to her 4 u
2006-07-18 18:15:19
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answered by ask Stacy 1
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it's okay cutie, I know this is going to sound cliche but just be yourself; like if you're good in a particular class or sport and the girl you know is interested or needs help in it, ask her...or there's the classic method, get a friend to talk to her for you but then you risk her thinking you're too scary or shy to do it yourself.
The only thing I can think of is just practicing confronting her everyday in front of a mirror or if you have a close girl that's your friend, practice on her, and gain confidence talking to a particular girl you like...if you need any advice or help just im or email sometime, best of luck to you!
2006-07-18 18:16:48
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answered by Cynicaldreamer 4
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Maybe because you don't know what exactly to tell them or maybe because your shy or scared about what there going to think about you. Just start an easy conversation and then you'll get the hang of it soon you won't have any problems talking to a girl.
2006-07-18 18:15:56
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answered by a_cute_girl 3
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Don't worry, it's natural. You prob. feel nervous because you care about how she would think. This is especially true if it is her first impression of you. At times, I actually like a guy who's kinda goofy or shy because that tells me that it means a lot for them to come up and talk to me. I know this sounds cheesy but it does work: be yourself. It can mean a lot of things but basically don't do pickup lines, don't try to impress her with things you usually wouldn't do, and try to go with the flow depending on where your conversation leads you.
2006-07-18 18:14:57
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answered by pingtinggege 3
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You might have low self esteem or maybe you just don't know what you would do if things worked out. Do you really like these girls or are you just attracted to them? How well do you know them? If you don't know them very well then you probably are just physically attracted to them and aren't sure if you would even want a relationship with them but are somehow strangely drawn to them.
2006-07-18 18:14:53
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answered by Jones J 1
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I would recommend getting over that fear quickly
Take it from a former loser with women (now married)
Your heading towards a life of regret
Get over the fact that you will get rejected many times before you find some that will take the bait.
Unless you really enjoy being alone -
2006-07-18 18:17:48
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answered by downdrain 4
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To quote a char from the movie Dune,
Fear is the mind killer.
Fear is related to pride and is sometimes confused with it, but rule your fears discipline yourself by doing what is right, then it will be easier in such situations.
My opinion only.
2006-07-18 18:16:01
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answered by Archer Christifori 6
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because you are afraid to hear the word NO!!!!! stop being a punk and man up if you walk up to a girl and she say no guess what you left with what you came with.
2006-07-18 18:15:54
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answered by meanblacktiger 5
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MAYBE BECAUSE YOU LIKE HER BUT YOU ARE NOT SURE SHE LIKES YOU. NEVER BE AFRAID TO TALK TO A GIRL.
2006-07-18 18:14:34
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answered by Thalia (SEXY GURL)! 1
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