My wife has confided that she wants a black stripper for her birthday. I thouht she was joking at first. She said that if I did get her one, she would allow me one wish also, like my fantasy about her dressing up like a maid. Or even allowing me to get a lapdance from a female stripper (one time). She said that she has no intentions about being unfaithful. She has been faithful and would just like one fantasy and would not ask for more. She says that she would not do anything sexual with the stripper, but would touch him if I would let her. If not, she would just look. Should I allow her? She IS a faithful wife and is extremely open with me. She says that she is 30 this year and would like to do one crazy thing since we married so young. She says seeing a muscular black guy strip for her is the only thing she wants. Should I allow her one crazy thing like this? Should i be bothered by the racial aspect or is it a common fantasy?
2006-07-18 11:03:15 · 7 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not racially wrong, if you're asking that question. The real question is whether or not you trust her. She seems to be very open and honest about the subject, and also granted you something as well.
It's up to you, not me.
Handle that
2006-07-18 11:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is curious and wants to indulge her wild side without being unfaithful. I'd say go for it, and take her up on the offer of granting you a wish. let both of yourselves enjoy this, safe in the knowledge that you love each other, and this is one more thing you learn about one another.
As for the maid thing, nah. Get her to wear an outfit like off of "I Dream of Jeannie" Of course, that's just me.
2006-07-21 08:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by But why is the rum always gone? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she's not respecting your feelings. Have you voiced your feelings on this? It would be different, if you were fine with it and you were fine with getting something in return. Sounds like your not comfortable with the situation at all. I'd sit down and explain to your wife the reasons you are not comfortable with it at all. Tell her once. If she begins to argue with you, walk away. Go to another room and focus on something else, until she cools off and understands how this bothers you. If she respects you, she'll understand. But prepared for her to go off, because she's not getting what she wants. Stay cool, calm, collected and firm.
2006-07-18 11:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would divorce her. What the hell kind of request is this? God knows what else she fantacizes about? Just think each time you have sex with her she's going to be dreaming it's that black dude with the big schlang banging her. The problem is not solved by denying the request. The problem is her wish is strong enough to ask you. Sorry, man, but any romantic side to your sex life is over.
2006-07-18 11:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dave's Quick Notes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*Because she was open about it...make her wish come true...be specific with the rules on whats allowed and what is not allowed. Make her happy...race is not the issue, I think its just a fantasy of something that she would not normally do. Let her enjoy it... you have nothing to be concerned about since she told you!!!! Good Luck and enjoy your wish when it happens!!!!
2006-07-18 11:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say has its for a bit of fun go for it, she is prepared to return the offer.
2006-07-18 11:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell NO!
2006-07-18 11:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋