Im a 20 year old college fraternity guy... I go out to clubs when I can and I know a lot of sorority girls and even more than that from "night aquaintances." Anyway, Im a "nice guy" and I've always been afraid of being too forceful with girls because I have seen abuse in the past and I vowed never to be like that... But it seeems like the ladies love to get "roughed up" and have boyfriends who treat them like crap. Is there no hope for me to find a lady for myself because I am not aggressive enough? Do nice guys really finish last?
This question is open to both sexes
2006-07-18 11:01:54 · 15 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately they do.
But, you will have a chance later in life, because once the girls get their "thug" or "bad guy," and get treated like $#!+ and beat up, they'll run to you. So get your catcher's mitt ready!!
It's the truth.
2006-07-18 11:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes they do, women (and men alike) are controlled by hormones not rational thought. Like it or not, those guys excite them more. Guys who do unexpected stuff and the like. You can eliminate this problem and still be a nice guy. Just let your horns grow a little bit, be a little aloof, and most importantly BE HONEST, don't try to be nice, and you will have no problem. Make your move now, quickly, and with assertion. You are much better off being more aggressive and maybe scaring someone off than staying passive and not taking any shots.
2006-07-18 11:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by timdog1210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they do. Honestly. I recently messed around with a 'nice guy' for a few months and then got back with my now boyfriend. And a lot of the time I find myself thinking about the nice guy and how I wish my boyfriend was more like that. The nice guy would take me out to dinner, to the movies and did whatever I wanted in bed! This guy I am STILL with sucks in bed has NO money and is selfish! I take HIM out to dinner AND the movies! And I honestly can't explain why us women want these losers that treat us like that but we do!
2006-07-18 11:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by BigBrownEyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys always finish dead last...
I have seen it alot more then once all through out high school and in college. It seems that girls only do like the @$$holes for boyfriends but yet the nice guy in their life is to much like "their brother" for them to date. Its life...its just the way it is...its probably why the divorce rate in america is going through the roof, I am sorry to say most girls never smarten up but rather stick with the jerk.
2006-07-18 11:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue what the college girls want, need or desire. But in my world a "nice guy would never finish last, as long as he makes himself available" Nice guys are an instant turn on. Especially ones that don't break your heart in half for all eternity........
2006-07-18 11:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not treat a lady like CRAP!!! It is all in what you say to them in the first 20 seconds, There is smack and mack little dude, ( i am not talking McDonald's ! ) When you learn these you will be a Big Daddy. You need help in this area. Smack are the things that lady's want to hear, that may not be true! Mack is the truth that they wanna hear. Both are like the little things you whisper in their ear, or complaints you say to them. See if You can figure out which of the two lines listed below are smack and which is mack!
1. UMMM, You look lovely to night, That dress makes you look sooo sexy, And I don't know how long I can keep my hands from going under your skirt...( While you think ...... ( I'd never touch those thighs......)
2. UMMM, You look lovely to night, That dress makes you look sooo sexy, And I don't know how long I can keep my hands from going under your skirt...( While you think..... ( She looks sooo sexy in that skirt that I hope we make it through dinner before I go there, I am sooo hungry, but at the dinner table YOU GO THERE BOY, YOU GO THERE !!!
I can keep my hands from going under your
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2006-07-18 11:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by doy_hal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN In college I was never looking to find a "steady" g/f just the "hook-up" for the nite. And if your looking for "the one" college may..or may not be the place to find her. College girls today(not all but most) like "bad boys" so if that is not your "persona" yeah your...... last homey.
2006-07-18 11:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by brooklynbornson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh no, but remember the last person to laugh last laughs the best. and no, cause u can get a girl that would love u.
one they dont know that they would be treated better in life, and they could get hit to death, they get a heart broken, and she woul go to u cause she wants something that appriciates her for what she is. well its better than getting the wrong girl right?
2006-07-18 11:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grabbed a nice guy when I was 18 and haven't let go (21 now).
2006-07-18 11:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... Nice guys always let the girls finish first.. and then finish.
2006-07-18 11:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋