she left for some other country, and she doesnt call now or email
2006-07-18 11:00:59 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes... sorry, but you can't MAKE anyone love you. If she doesn't love you (and it doesn't sound like she does if she's cut off contact with you), you're just going to have to move on... It's tough, I know, but you'll be fine. You'll find someone else eventually.
2006-07-18 11:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make her love you...but you can let her know that you still care. Send her an email....notice the an there...meaning one...and ask her how she is. Don't be needy...i.e. calling her or email her every couple hours every day. If you don't hear from her in a week then email her again and in the subject line ask if she wants to end things. It may sound harsh but if she is ignoring you then she might just want to move on. Now it is possible that where-ever she moved she might not have a phone or email connection yet. So if you haven't heard from her with either email then just give it a while (think a month) then find someone else to share you love and life with (after a month she really should have a phone connection at least). I hope this helps, good luck. :-)
2006-07-18 11:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by ruthbeckersc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you can't MAKE someone love you-if you've called and E-Mailed several times and she does not respond she may be busy-give it some time .You also don't mention which country for some in some countries esp in the Far East and so on with the problems between Israel and Lebanon there may be problems with th communication system. Give it a reasonable amount of time and if you've made sufficient effort and no response then it's probably her choice and you need to move on with your life. Neither do you mention if she moved permanently or plans to return forr if she moved permanently she may have made the decision to end her relationship with you fo there' be no sense to it. Know when to let go. Good Luck
2006-07-18 11:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone love you. That's the problem...it will never be real unless it happens on its own. I am sorry to hear you are going through this. If she does not call or email after a while you should send her an email that says you are thankful for the time you did have and hope to be friends one day. She may not ever answer, but try to get closure and move on with your life. You will find someone who will love you all on their own and it feels great, I promise. Don't lose hope and remember you are a worthwhile person and appreciated by those who love you. I know it is hard, but press on and be strong. Take care, God Bless.
2006-07-18 11:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you cant. Try approaching her with phone calls and emails. Get a system set up where u talk every night at say 8:00pm. All you mainly need to do is be yourself and you cant force anyone to truly love you. But you can attempt to keep the relationship up.
2006-07-18 11:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you can not make someone love you . You can be as kind and caring as you can be to that person to show them that you love them. I would just try to find someone else. If she left without telling you where she went then its probably not going to work out ! If she loves you she will realize that and come back to see you . Good luck !
2006-07-18 11:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make her love you. You could go over there and surprise her, if you love her that much. Maybe she fell for someone else why she was over there, or just did not want to tell you it was over, before she left.
2006-07-18 11:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by care_bearclb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make anyone love you either she does or she doesnt or you havent given her time to fall in love with you and based on the question id say u are to young to worry about it anyway
2006-07-18 11:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by stacey s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her stranded on a desert island, where there's no other guy except you. That'll wipe out all the competition from other guys, which you know is why she's moved on to better things...
2006-07-18 11:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by Cormac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if she doesn't contact you in any way at all, it looks like she isn't your girlfriend anymore.
You can't make anyone love you.
2006-07-18 11:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋