2006-07-18 10:44:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you never took the time out to find out how he felt about you before you went 'head over heels over him.' Next one you meet, take time to know him then grow to love him. I am sure as time progresses you will know how he feels about you before it is too late.
2006-07-18 10:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by joebaby 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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You are demonstrating characteristics of co-dependence.
You will continue to do this, until you figure out how to stop jumping into a relationship with this "same" hurtful type again and again. You are selecting the same personality each time, and that personality will hurt you...
but you know you are a nice person, and worthy, and you want to prove to them that your love is so true, that they will feel all that and love you totally....
well...wake up, the first part may be true about you...
but the second part about how they will respond is wrong...this type of person will never ever be FIXED by your love.
You need, very much to write down on paper the type of man you REALLY AND TRULY want to live with for the rest of your life, and stick with that.
Learn the red flag of users abusers. And know that these types will always lie in the beginning. so.Then go into a relaitonship S L O W L Y,....
ONLY give your love in smalll earned increments equal to the love you are receiving.
Don't try to FIX someone else... YOU CAN'T FIX another person.
Do try to fix you, and your belief that YOUR total love can redeem someone else. Not possible.
If you go into love EXPECTING to be treated well, with the understanding that you will leave the relaitonship if you are treated poorly then you have a much better chance of having a great relationship that will last.
Don't be a doormat, and all eager to please too much.
Just be YOU. Love yourself in the right way, and only then will someone else love you in the right way.
I wish you real love
stw
;)
2006-07-18 11:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't grown up. Thats why you are confused. Seriously, YOu got to set and think about who you are, what you want, and why things are happen bad. You got to take time by yourself and do that. Your folks are mature older folks try to tell you things but you won't listen. Plus looks always get you. Alot of y'all women think if a dude is good looking as Denzel Washington or Tom Cruise you think he is a good guy. You fall in love to quick and that person really doesn't want to be involved with you. If you don't find out who you REALLY are then you gonna be with the same guys who dawg you out. And you probably just love that. Some who dawgs you out. All Women love that.
2006-07-18 10:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...having a bit of a problem myself with this...
maybe its because your trying to convince yourself he's great and everything but your ignoring the signs that show he's not into you.
when we want something so bad, we tend to imagine what's not really there. and even guys who we would never usually consider suddenly become more interesting because we just want the end result of falling in love.
stick to your instincts in the end. if it feels wrong at any time or you notice something he does that is usually a big turn off for you, stop and get rid of your losses.
its not worth falling for a guy, who doesn't like you back and probably isn't right for you in the first place.
you deserve someone who is crazy about you, not just likes you.
2006-07-18 10:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by reemsh_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kayla is right.. you are probably caught up with looks...
So... most of those guys don't care about you, because you are not attractive enough... They just want a booty call !!!
I can tell by your avitar that you are average looking at best.
Start thinking.. Boob Job !!! That will get attention.
2006-07-18 10:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because your not taking enough time to get to know them in the beginning. Maybe your moving too fast. Slow it all down and get to know them, really know them before you start spending a lot of time with them.
2006-07-18 10:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time that happens is when you get caught up in looks
2006-07-18 10:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with SAM , most ladies want what they cant have
2006-07-18 11:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because you know that you can't have him so it makes you want him more.
2006-07-18 10:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by sam I am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do the same....maybe its genetic
2006-07-18 10:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋