i thought about that today...
why?
well, because if i had a gay kid, i would still love him/her no matter what
2006-07-18 10:43:54 · 49 answers · asked by C. D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Absolutely yes, I'd still love my kid if he/she was gay. And good for you for realizing that your love for your child would be so unconditional. Very nice.
2006-07-18 12:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Girasol 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course!! They are your children, and love doesn't come with any conditions that can take that love away. Children need to know that their parents love them unconditionally and support them and will be there for them no matter what, but especially if that child is gay...they need that love and acceptance and understanding and support more than ever.
2006-07-18 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would still love my child! I would also take them for counseling! I might think that I had something to do with it. Maybe I wanted a girl but really got a boy! I might think that they were molested by someone of the same sex. I would make sure that they weren't hurt by someone of the opposite with whom they had a relationship with. Plenty of gays are repulsed by being with someone of the opposite sex and I don't care what no one says, that isn't normal! A male homosexual would rather have a**l sex with a man (which is very nasty) than to be with a women. A gay man once told me that he was DISGUSTED by a woman's natural juices! Hello, what about dookie????
2006-07-18 10:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by meme1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what unconditional love is all about. A good parent will always love their child even if they aren't always happy with the behavior (Not that being Gay is a choice, but in other matters.)
2006-07-18 10:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by donk_67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to sit down with your child and explain that this is a delusional notion. Next, you will want to determine where the child heard this. Was it part of a grooming process, or simply something said to shock you? Or, is your child reaching out for some help and guidance from you? I do not use the term gay to refer to homosexuality, or to homosexuals because the "illness" of homosexuality is denial. Clinical denial in which the person suffering the illness does not know that he/she is in denial. And, in referring to it as something other than it is, is enabling the homosexual's denial.
2006-07-18 10:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't plan on having kids, but if I did have a kid that happened to be gay, I'd love him/her the same. It would be really hypocritical of me not to love them since I'm bi.
2006-07-18 10:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love my child no matter what. I mean granted, I would be a little disappointed at the prospect of not being able to have Grandchildren-but I would want them to be happy and who ever they are with I would want that person to treat my child with love and respect.
2006-07-18 10:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesssssss
2006-07-18 10:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Effected Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt....but I told him I would really love Grand kids, so adopt! He's not really gay, but we tease him sometimes...but it wouldn't matter if he was!
2006-07-18 10:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my mom and dad that I was bisexual. They still love me. I think its sad when parents arent ok with the way there kid turned out. But I look at it this way...Atleast someone loves them!
2006-07-18 10:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by lil_carebear2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋