What does it mean if my boyfriends friends little brother constantly talks 2 me on msn?

Question

Well ive been with my boyfriend for 5 motnhs and his bestfreiends little brother whom is 16 has recently been talking to me on msn last night for about an hour or 2 and just now for about 5 or 6 just talking and he stayed up even though he was tired. He refers to me as his big sister and refers to how he wants an older women that are 19 such as im turning this friday.but and says he can get anyone he wants. I said he couldnt get me thn he said he wouldnt try cuz im like his big sister. its complicated but we have already talked about deep and meaningful issues with about everyting. I see him sometimes when i come over their house and last week whn my boyfriend was sleeping we were laughing and talking for an hour. Please someone tell me what you think

well he is very expereinced for his age. his been with alott of gurls tells me about it. His a regular casanova

i just dont see it being normal that he stays up 5 and a half hours to talk 2 me on msn and its 7am here right now. I just thought that it was weird. Ive never had this kind of situation happen before.

Answer 1

sounds like he is relying on you to build his confidence, which is also a crush, its normal just keep talking to him, but thats all

Answer 2

I think u enjoy him.. He feels that u are attracting to him.. He is trying to win u off his brother. When ur bf was sleeping ? U had laughs with him?? seems u are not worried about ur bf's feelings. I think u are enjoying this guy soo much than ur bf and even he contacted you via MSN and u still ACCEPTED him... U didnt back him off as if u are dating ur bf .. U allow him to control the situation by sharing deeep feelings and as u see hes very expereinced in all areas .. i think u are falling for him as he knows.. U are like a meat andhe is a lion looking for the best meat to attack.. OOPS hegot u through so good and U send us in thinking this way while u have a boyfriend ... i think u both like eachother.. its not about a crush a far way from the concept of crush ... i called it attraction or chemistry... im sure u cannnot get off him in ur mind .. how would u feel that he finds a girl and talks soo loud and laughing .. like he had better commuication with feeelings than you ... I am sure u will be soo jealous or pissed off at him .. hes playing u real oson .. i applaud how smart he is becz it shows me that U ARE NO GOOD GLF for ur bf... u come too far too EASY with him...... im sure u might be sexually linked to him by sharing feelings and to know what his mind thinks that excites you.. i have seen this before in this situation .. besides this , im a counselor!

Answer 3

Closet love affair. The guy definitely has a crush on you and in so many ways has told you the best he can without rejection. You must like him a bit too or you wouldn't talk to him so long. Your plea on this forum is because your confused on whether to act on your feelings or his. If you do, break up with your boyfriend first. Guys and Girls can be friends though. I have several very close girl friends and that is all it will ever be.

Answer 4

well i think he really likes u but b urself and dont act up and down with him wen he sees u,afterall,he IS younger than u
i know this cuz i experienced the same thing my boyfriend's big brother liked me but the problem was he was my best friend's boyfriend i knew he liked me cuz he used 2 call me at 3 am and told me not 2 tell any1
but i broke up with his brother to prevent fights of sum sort o anything,but u dont have to brake up with ur boyfriend i d cuz i moved anyway,but u can um..make him understand in sum way that ur older and u already have a boyfriend and u CANT b with him

Answer 5

he probably has a little crush on and likes the attention you give him. he only says ur a big sis to him only to keep you close. he doesn't want to scare you away. just keep talking to him, but i wouldn't do anything for him that would require too much effort or else he'll think you're into him. don't lead him on...

Answer 6

sweetie it takes two to tangle he wasn't speaking to himself nor was he writing to himself. you sure you don't have a crush on the little brother or cousin or whatever he is. funny how you say he couldn't get you. he already got you. your also staying up i-eming him all night and you stood up with him after your b/f went to sleep. does your b/f know whats going on? bet if he did shorty would catch an a$$ whipping. becareful you tread on dangerous ground.

Answer 7

he might see you as a big sister. not everyone that spends so much time and effort to be with you or talk to you has a crush.. he might not have an older sister or he might have one but isn't so close to.. i see my best friend as my older brother because it's nice to have that kind of ship.. that's something to cherish

Answer 8

i think you are making a mountain out of a mole hill. what exactly is the big deal? do you get this hysterical everytime a guy talks to you?

Answer 9

stop talking to him, its making me sick..he OBVIOUSLY wants you..duh lol........your giving him the impression that u like him back so u'll probably get accused of acting like u like him if ur bf ever finds out..its not good if he truly thought of u as his big sis he wudnt act this way at all...

Answer 10

well i dont see wat u r worrying abt here. I mean maybe he just enjoys talking to u and he likes u as a best friend or as wat he said a sister. All i think u should do is let ur bf know b4 he finds out and get the wrong idea